this girl says she is eleven, but she answers Qs about s_ex!! how can i tell her i cant speak to her because i cant trust her to only be '11'.
2006-08-01 18:04:44 · 6 answers · asked by disco_dog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you should tell the girl that she is too young to be talking about sex with others online. If she is that interested in sex tell her to ask her parents to answer her questions because they should be the ones telling her about that subject. Just tell her that you are sorry, but you can't hold further conversations with her about sex or sex related topics. If she understands how to answer questions about the mature topic she should understand that you cannot speak to her about it anymore.
2006-08-01 18:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by d_sbabymomma 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be interested in sex from this age on, but it depends on what she's asking and how. True, you can't trust her to be 11; it's easy enough to make up a profile in here, as you probably know.
So I think you have a couple of choices:
-- draw firm boundaries and tell her that the questions make you uncomfortable, and you'd rather talk about other things;
-- tell her she needs to talk to her parents about this;
-- refer her to some books on human sexuality and let her do her own research;
-- report her for abuse if she's way over the line and does not have 11-year-old vocabulary and syntax;
-- block her and/or tell her goodbye
Good luck. Cheers, K
2006-08-02 01:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 11 year old girl knows alot more then an 11 even a 14 year old boy.
Trust her she knows what she is telling you.......lol!
2006-08-02 01:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just report her. You and all of us need to be protected from minors on here that can get us into trouble. Its a shame they can get on here any way .
2006-08-02 01:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by Windwispers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give her anything new..............try to handle an 11 year old prudently and if you get convince that she or her mind is already about 18 then give her what she wants.........
2006-08-02 01:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by mobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her just like that then if it really comes down to it report her.
2006-08-02 01:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by magesticmayhem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋