Yes...its true.
2006-08-01 18:01:04 · 39 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is bad.not because the man u like is black!!!coz u cheat on ur husband!!!dont bring race into this matter
2006-08-01 18:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by the_witch108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sticky question. I guess it depends on what you want to do with your marriage. If you want to keep it going, then either your husband has to agree to let you see the black man, or you have to stop seeing him. You would be violating the trust your husband has for you if you sneak around with anyone else. The color of the other guy isn't the issue, it's the fact that you are married to another guy. If I had an open relationship with my wife, I wouldn't care about her choice of men and their color. It would be up to her. That's why it's called an open marriage. If you don't have that arrangement with your husband, then you need to either get that arrangement made, or dump all other guys, until you divorce your husband. Good Luck
2006-08-01 18:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad that you are in love with another man, I don't see what his race has to do with it. Are you confused because you never loved a black man. I promise you the love is no different! I have dated white men and black men, it depends more on the man's character than his skin color
2006-08-01 18:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang some folks on here got very harsh and they are going through the same thing. But u already know it's a sin, and i know somethings things just happen unexpectedly, but you have to make sure you love this guy and it's not just infuatutation or lust because you want to go where your heart is, and don't ever want this to happen again. Good Luck
2006-08-01 18:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly the color of the man is not the bad part. The bad part is that you allowed yourself to fall for temptation and giving this second guy the attention you should be giving your marrage and your husband.
Its people like you that screw up the good guys left out there.
2006-08-01 18:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by bluemidnightbeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's bad only cuz you're cheating on your husband...if you didn't love him, you shouldn't have married him. or you shouldn't have let yourself get so close to a man other than your husband. for the record, in a relationship, the guy should never allow himself to get too close to a female friend, nor should the girl let herself get too close to a male friend...you just don't do it. but you need to nip something in the bud, and either way you do it, it's not gonna be pretty.
2006-08-01 18:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad because your married already. Not because they are a different race. My husband is black?? Soo what?
Wow hol up, In your other questions refferedto your "boyfriend" and now husband??
2006-08-01 18:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mommy 2 Be♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who doesn't love a black man but then again their your husband and you know he loves U and U might not know it but maybe the black guy doesn't like U but who know hope everything works out good luck
2006-08-01 18:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving someone other then your husband bad. race got nothing to do with it. your in love with another man. that is the bad part.
2006-08-01 18:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
race doesn't matter! Loving another man besides your husband is horrible and I really can't say anymore because I hate things like this.
2006-08-01 18:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad that you dont love him and that you leading him on and letting you hubby thinks there is something there the race issue is fine does not matter on color as long as you love the person and if you really love the balck guy end it with your husband before you have any doubts and dont worry life will take itself on so sit back and relax
2006-08-01 18:06:55 · answer #11 · answered by Kelsey P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋