Yeah me and my friend have know each other for about 3 years and we act like sisters, we do everything together act the same etc. BUT today we got into a huge fight and now she wont talk to me. Should i wait tell she calls me or should i call her? What should i do, say. I need help. We have never gotten into a fight b4. Agh im like so upset rite now nd i dont know wut to do, she locked me out of her house for about an hour and wont talk to me HELP!!
2006-08-01 17:50:07 · 17 answers · asked by casper077801@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
our fight was silly, me nd our friend were messing with her cause she is scared of the woods and our firend put the window down and drove by the woods then he turned off the car and gave me the keys and i took off in the woods yeah so i guess she got mad cause we wud not stop
2006-08-01 17:59:59 · update #1
Let her come too you. If you apologized or whatever. You said your side and explained it too her then let her take the next step. Let her know that whatever it is, if you guys sit and talk about it then it will make the tension simmer down and things always get resolved when they are talked about. Make sure when you guys do talk you keep calm and have a clear head. If you get mad and she is already mad more things might be done or said that will hurt one another. If you guys are really true best friends there is nothing in this world that can make you guys stay away from each other. Good luck oh and make sure to be completely honest. Don't hold back anything.
2006-08-01 18:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by magesticmayhem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe big fight, I have been there and looking back am thinking you should wait for a day or two so that you friends cools down. Then initiate the apology by calling her and really let her know that you are trurly sorry. I know things will work out between the two of you, you just need a little patient.
2006-08-01 17:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is let things cool down. When she isn't hostile and totally blazing angry anymore then give her a call and talk things through. You guys sound really close so things should blow over. If it's a deep problem that caused the fight, then have calm talk with her. I'm sure you guys will come to an understanding.
good luck,
Nerdtron3000
2006-08-01 17:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by nerdtron3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fights are never a good thing. But, they will always happen, virtually impossible to advoid them. With you and your friend, just let it mello for a few days. Let her/him think, and let yourself think. Apologizing for something you did is always a good thing. Also, if y'all do have a confrontation, don't yell, even if he/she is. My mom will start yelling at my brother, then the whole family goes nuts. To me, and my philosophy of life, yelling at someone just gets them worked up, and makes things worse. So, just keep your cool, and talk it out with him/her. Trust me, everything will be A, OK. Remember, the 3 hardest sayings in life to say are, I'm sorry, thank you, and I love you. So, if you take the initiative and apologize first, it will show that your mature, and want to handle the fight maturely. Take care, and I hope everything gets better!!
2006-08-01 18:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like you guys are pretty close...since that's the case, i really doubt the silent treatment will last forever. just try to call her...it will show her you miss her, and want to make things right. if she's not picking up, just give her some time, but keep trying...she will come around. once you do start talking, just tell her how much you hate to fight with her, etc....they say the closest people have the biggest fights, and if you're that close, i'm sure it can be fixed :)
2006-08-01 17:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend have time to calm down. It is hard to talk to people when they are mad and their emotions are all mixed up. Give her a day or so and then call her or see her and tell you that you don't want your friendship to end. Good friends are just too hard to come by and most things can be worked out with COMMUNICATION.
Best of luck to you!
2006-08-01 17:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by JMidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her or e-mail her or write her a note and take it to her house. Tell her that you are so sorry that this happened between the two of you and that you want to spend some time together to talk it out so it doesn't happen again. You must tell her that you are very sorry that you and she had such a horrible fight.
2006-08-01 17:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait a few days so both of you cool off.
me and my best friend of like 17 years (she's 18 i'm 19) and we got into a huge fight and now we arn't as close as we once were.
just admit what you did wrong because if you don't she will still hold it against you.
2006-08-01 17:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to cool down for a few days..then call her and say you are sorry unless she calls you first... Last time i got in a fight with a friend it lasted for a year.
2006-08-01 17:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call her and say sorry. explain what happened or just say we have been friends to long to let some silly fight get between us. I love you and need you as my best friend. Your like a sister to me, so please don't let this come between us. Good luck
2006-08-01 17:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋