Ok...
1. You can't reach him at work.
2. He disappears but can't or won't account for his absence.And gets angry or defensive when you insist.
3. He seems to be withdrawing from you,no longer loving,affectionate,ect. Also seems to be mad at you for no apparent reason and will try to lamely justify it.Also no sex or less sex than before.
4. He leaves the house earlier than usual or comes home later than usual.
5. Suddenly seems unusually affectionate, i.e.,bring you flowers for no reason at all,or being nicer than usual
6. Suddenly the people he works with start acting strange like odd looks,or suggestive comments in the form of a joke.They know more than you do. FIND OUT!!!!
Follow him 1 day. Check up on him.If he's going out,ask if you can come along. If he refuses you KNOW something's up. Go to his work unexpectedly.
Good luck!
N.
2006-08-01 17:59:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Pay attention to changes in behavior and the way in which your spouse talks to you. Are they more reserved, less attentive?? Do all of their bills come to the house?? Have you seen the Visa bill lately or cell phone bill?? Did they get another cell phone for someone or pick up a p.o. box?? How about do their stories change? Monitor their cell phone and check for any additional numbers coming in.
2006-08-02 00:49:07
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answered by cjlew228 1
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Here are some clues - cell rings late at night and won't answer it in front of you. Talking on the phone and goes into another room to talk. Sexual needs change towards you. Spending much more time with his friends when he could spend it with you.
2006-08-02 01:06:46
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answered by Leila 3
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Not coming home on time frequently. Not interested in having sex as often as he use to. Telling stories like running out of gas, flat tire and so on. Buying different clothes that he normally never wears. Listening to a different style of music that he normally would never listen to. Wanting to put on cologne when he use to not wear none at all. Being very secretive and sneaky. Not wanting you to check his cell phone and his messages. I can go on and on but I think I gave enough answers.
2006-08-02 01:07:15
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answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6
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well my cheating husband always gets caught by me. If u need any tips e-mail me i will promise u catching his cheating ***. Im good I helped a friend. Im an expert @ this my asshole does it all the time!!! redamunguia@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 00:47:27
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answered by reda m 1
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If you really want to know go to radioshack and tap your own phone line with a voice recorder. Be prepared.
2006-08-02 00:45:11
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answered by krichard70 2
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If he's away a lot more than usual, with lame excuses, that may be a good sign.
2006-08-02 00:54:38
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answered by Anonymous
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mine is a cheater. he dresses up and comes in at 4 am or not at all.buys new underwear and clothes and talks on his cell outside and usually hangs up if i confront him.
2006-08-02 01:10:52
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answered by Anonymous
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The only way you KNOW is to catch him in the act so start following his butt!
2006-08-02 00:44:17
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answered by dappersmom 6
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put a recorder onyour phone and this is very legal and will stand in court .and his actions speak where words dont. and his clothing as well . my opion ref,, legal?
2006-08-02 02:23:45
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answered by the_silverfoxx 7
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