My boyfriend has this friend that he hangs out with all the time. I wonder sometimes if they're more than friends. The thing is his friend is a guy. But they act like a couple. WTF!?
2006-08-01 17:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by deansheena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it quacks like a duck....
2006-08-01 17:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about the possibility that they could just be really good friends? I'm like that with my best friend, who's a girl, but it doesn't mean that we're a couple. Stop worrying, and if in a week your still concerned then maybe you should sit him down and talk to him about.
2006-08-02 00:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know its crazy. But a lot of guys (for some reason) pretend to be gay when they are really not. For some, its a way to let other females know they are not interrested with out hurting their feelings. One way you can tell if your bf and his friends are actually a "couple". (It sounds off the wall but is proven) Pay attention to your bf and his friends ***. Litterally. If they are doing any thing sexual. One or the others *** will become larger, more rounder, and will sit up higher then normal.
2006-08-02 01:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by eranjc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been friends with this guy? I have two male friends that are like brothers to me and we have been friends for like 20 years and we joke and what could be considered flirting with each other all the time. It's just a goof. We know each other well enough that all that machismo bull____ doesn't matter anymore. We just goof with each other like that. It scared my wife the first time she saw it because we went to visit one of them after a long absence and my friend came over and (quickly enough my wife didn't see his hand) covered my mouth with his hand and pretended to give me a big sloppy kiss. It didn't help when I wiped my mouth and said "Hey! No tounge this time?" She confessed her concern after we left and I laughed for like an hour before I explained what really happened.
Don't worry about it.
2006-08-02 00:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean but in a different perspective. My best friend, who is a girl, told me she was bi recently. And not to make you worry or anything, but the next thing I know she has a thing for my closest cousin, who happens to be a girl also. Now they are dating. I'm not that way but I feel like I've lost my friend to her relationship with another person who happens to be very close to me also. All I can say is talk to him and tell him how you feel. I hope everything turns out okay for you.
2006-08-02 00:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by faerie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they act like a couple, you may just be his cover. I suggest you have a serious talk with him. He may not be honest so you'll need to be smart and go with what you feel is going on. In that situation, if you are sure, break up and move on.
2006-08-02 00:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should be worried, do not make something out of nothing, unless you have absolut proff, no hear say, I mean like vidio or pictures, you can also have somebody follow them around without them knowing, good luck.
2006-08-02 00:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect they are just fine hetero sexual men, they just know they're getting a rise out of you. All this is out the window, however, if either of them is wearing a skirt.
2006-08-02 00:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the young age, your friend is experimenting with both male & female!! If he wants to be gay, allow him...if he wants you, ask him to stop this dual play!!! Are you sure he has homo-rekationship with this guy?
2006-08-02 00:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-bf had a friend like that. As long as you don't see them uncomfortably close or any PDA, you're good.
2006-08-02 00:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by xxjoanna_maexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck than it's a duck.
2006-08-02 00:11:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋