i had unprotected sex and my boyfriend didn't come..?

Question

i know that pre-ejaculate stuff came out though, inside of me, and i heard you can get pregnant from that. i threw up the other morning, but i don't really see any other symptoms. i might though, but it could just be me being paranoid. i started birth control recently and it supposedly starts working after the first month. and i haven't used it for a month yet. i'm on the last week of them, so i should start my period soon. actually i have about 4 more days and if it doesn't come by then i'm going to be really scared. i don't know what to do. is there a high chance of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate? i also had sex in the pool too, unprotected. so i'm really really worried. someone please try to calm me down! i need reassurance.

i know that pre-ejaculate stuff came out though, inside of me, and i heard you can get pregnant from that. i threw up the other morning, but i don't really see any other symptoms. i might though, but it could just be me being paranoid. i started birth control recently and it supposedly starts working after the first month. and i haven't used it for a month yet. i'm on the last week of them, so i should start my period soon. actually i have about 4 more days and if it doesn't come by then i'm going to be really scared. i don't know what to do. is there a high chance of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate? i also had sex in the pool too, unprotected. so i'm really really worried. someone please try to calm me down! i need reassurance.

if you're just going to lecture me on being irresponsible and to be abstinent, then i think you should probably skip answering this because you don't know what you're talking about.

if you're just going to lecture me on being irresponsible and to be abstinent, then i think you should probably skip answering this because you don't know what you're talking about.

Answer 1

Why are you getting scared now? You did know when you were having this unprotected sex that you could get pregnant, right? Then it shouldn't be a problem cause whatever the outcome may be we assume you're mature and were prepared to accept the consequences of your actions, yes?

Answer 2

I think you should take a test if you are that worried about it, Birth control isn't 100%. It may take up to week before you actually become pregnant, so you may still get your period. Your best bet is to just take a test and next time make him wear a condom. You can never be too careful. Don't let him use you being on b/c as an excuse not to. As for having sex in the pool that is just nasty. You can easy catch an infection from the water or worse. Pools aren't clean you know.

Answer 3

Sorry, no reassurance here. There is a very real possibility that you could be pregnant. No birth control is 100% safe except for abstenance. Period.

I'm sure it does not feel good being worried and scared about being pregnant. Have you thougth about how you're going to tell your parents if you are pregnant? What will they think? How about him? How will he tell his and what will they think? If you are pregnant, will you finish school and who will watch the baby when you go (will school let you continue while you're pregnant?) Will the guy stay with you? Will he support you and the baby? There is so much to think about when you have sex...lots of consequences that can happen too and you need to think about them before having sex again.

Just because you've had sex a couple of times does not mean you have to continue. If you are a smart girl, you will stop and stop now. Why do you want to put yourself though this all again...esepcially if you are not pregnant now. You've had a "close call", so don't go thorugh it again.

Go out, have fun with friends. Sex can come later when you are older and can deal with all the consequences. If the guy is pressuring you then drop him. He's not with you for you then, he's with you because you are giving him sex.

Think more of yourself. You are worth it and you're worth having a guy that wants you for you, not for the sex you can give him. Any girl can do that. Be more than that!

I pray you are not pregnant and that you will wake up and stop now! Remember these feelings everytime someone wants to have sex with you. Hopefully that will be enough to stop you.

Answer 4

Good morning!!
First...folks..she asked an honest question not a lesson in morality. Think there's a Jerry Falwell section just for you.
OK...first just like what someone else said..the pills are tricking your body in to believing you already are pregnant but they do take a full month's use before you're at maximum protection. I agree too that since you're close to the end of the cycle, just wait to see what happens. If there's no period, then I would get 2 test kits just to be 100% sure. It is possible to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate but not every male releases sperm with pre-ejaculate. I've been the male partner in just your situation before...I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Answer 5

Did you not think you can get pregnant from having unprotected sex?
I can't stress this enough

If you're not going to be responsible do not have sex.

I hope you're prepared to take care of the consequences of your actions.

Yes you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculation.
Also, birth control isn't 100% effective, my friend got pregnant on birth control even though she took if every day at the same time.
Be responsible, tell your boyfriend to use a condom for both of you.

The only thing you can do now is wait until your period comes and if it does, you should take precaution next time and make sure you use protection along with the birth control pill.

Answer 6

Serious answer.
With most birth control you should be okay if you started it at least two weeks before the event. However, it is still considered unprotected sex with pre ejaculation fluid. It does not matter if it was with or without orgasm, sperm is sperm.
Go get a pregnancy test. Most of them can tell up to three days before your period is due to arrive. Tha is the fastest way to get a comfortable feeling. Nothing I say is gonig to bring it like that will. Good luck to you.

Answer 7

Having unprotected sex without any forms of birth control is not very smart. Not going to preach to you, cause I am sure you already know that. I know things can happen in the 'heat of the moment', but not wearing a condom....please.

A moment of passion is not worth the consequences you may have to deal with (children) if you are not mentally or financially ready.

If you are pregnant, there are options. But the main one is the boyfriend needs to face up to the facts and be a man. It takes TWO. Good luck.

Answer 8

rarely is there sperm in pre-e if you are just starting the Birth control it may mess up your cycle.........remember birth control works because if fools your body into thinking it is pregnant to keep you from ovulating......and you may have symptoms of pregnancy as far as the pool goes you must be careful as to not force the pool water inside you, this can cause problems, but if you are careful it shouldnt be a problem

Answer 9

i'm assuming via the undeniable fact which you responded this which you're a new child, which makes your possibilities exceedingly intense, definite, you need to take the pill ASAP. end asking inquiries to strangers on the activity and pass now. placed up haste!

Answer 10

If I could go back to high school I would have prayed for someone like 317bossyaussie to tell me what she told you. Listen to her... don't forget it. Having an abortion is damaging to yourself in many ways... trust me :(. You don't want to go through that. Having a baby is hard too, but also rewarding (not financially-- that's for sure... trust me I know about that now too).