2006-08-01 17:02:20 · 9 answers · asked by noahkaylasmom 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I do not know if you can. First comes forgiveness on both sides. You must move forward slowly so as not to trip and fall. Have your pastor council you both or go to a outside source for therapy. Look for the best in one another. Put aside the past...lay it to rest and move on forward. Pray to the Lord for guidance in this.
If it is meant to be...it will work out. If not move in another direction.
2006-08-01 17:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask yourself why it has been burnt out 1 too many times and ask yourself.Do you want to continue to live the way your living slowly repairing a relationship that will slowly get bunt out time and time again? Life is too short & you only Live One Life Move on and Get the best out of life.All For Y-O-U-S-E-L-F.
2006-08-01 17:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by ManyMom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if the other person still wants to repair it or not....if they don't, then it would be best to stay away from them for a while to give them time to cool down, then maybe try to rebuild the relationship....the last thing you want to do is to force yourself on someone that doesn't want to be around you...then they'll really build a wall that you can't ever get through....if the person is willing to, then you might try spending a few days apart from each other to see what's life like without the other person....then try and talk about it and what you dislike about the other person and what they dislike about you...and try to work with it and help each other out....then maybe the relationship can get better...hope this helps!
2006-08-01 17:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by blue_bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't, and you may have to live with the problem or break up.
It's just like a physical injury, some times it leaves no mark at all, then other injuries leave a terrible scar.
If your relationship has an emotional scar on it, then it will always be there.
2006-08-01 20:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't if its been burned one too many times. What makes you think it won't happen again? If you change nothing then nothing will change. I think I would focus my energy on figuring out why I hold on to something that has proven that it doesn't work so many times. There is a very fine line between being forgiving and being foolish.
2006-08-01 20:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of relationship and how was it burned to begin with?
2006-08-01 17:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by heshootshescores3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harrasment!
2006-08-01 17:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure this is what you want because it will take years. Yes, years. It will be slow and it will never ever be the same.
2006-08-01 17:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pour some water on it.
2006-08-01 17:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by ryan5555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋