these people are family and have been stalking harassing us for years. restraining orders have not worked. how do we get it through to their heads we want absolutely, nothing to do with them?
2006-08-01 17:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by noahkaylasmom 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
next time they violate the restraining order, call the police and have them arrested. Then follow through with the prosecutor on pressing charges. Don't get them arrested and then drop the charges.
You can also just move away.
2006-08-01 17:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by heshootshescores3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason behind the stalking and Harassment? Let me guess,You either married the mama's Boy or the favorite brother. Or the Bread winner of this family.Am I close? Best advice I can give you is to move and don't let them know. That mean's leaving the state.You will never have any peace until you do. Take it from someone who know's. It's either move out of the state or give up whatever it is there stalking you for. Hope it helps.
2006-08-02 00:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by ManyMom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to do anything about them, but you can do something about yourself. Hate is a powerful emotion, but it will only hurt you, not them. Try to find someone you trust to talk this out with, a pastor or counselor. It would be best for you to find a way to deal with your hate before it causes problems for you--you could actually end up physically ill. If you act on your hate you might end up in jail. I agree with the person who suggested calling the police and following through with prosecution. That may be the only thing that will get through to them. I wish you well.
2006-08-02 00:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by somebodywhocares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you certainly are in the right category if you hate someone that is related to you by blood. I have people in my family that I don't particularly care for but I don't hate them. I just grin and bear it when I'm around them. You need professional help! Sounds like the problem could have something to do with you in addition to them. Think about it!
2006-08-02 00:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by madroofer36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I am sorry to hear the you hate your own family.
But you can have them arrested if they truly are stalking you.
If that doesn't do it then the only thing I could say would be to move far away.
2006-08-02 03:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wt ur talking abt
i hate some of my family members like anyhting
they have spoiled my life
teasing and harassing
but u cant do much abt it
just convert ur hatred into positive energy
let ur hatred do somthig better
wen i ws a teen i used to see them evryday
and there ws always anger but u cld not do anything wod it
so i put my energies into my studies
and like really study
u cld choose some other form ur wrk ur own family or somthing
but make it positive
and it will be grt
2006-08-02 00:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by carissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they aren't obeying restraining orders, you should be reporting it and having them arrested. I am in the same boat, but we make restraining orders stick.
2006-08-02 00:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Carol_ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Hate is a Sin. Pray about it.
2006-08-02 00:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine them with bullet holes in their foreheads. Or imagine them anally impaled on a flagpole. Always works for me.
2006-08-02 00:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move far far away.
Really far.
Don't tell them when or where you are moving.
2006-08-02 00:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋