i have a friend who's husband dosent want to have sexual relations with her and she wants guys opinions on why this is happening please help!!!
2006-08-01 16:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by greeneyedmami5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my friends husband is not wanting sexual relations with her, its not her weight and she has tried various times to start the sex and still nothing what could be happening and what should she do??? please help her!!!
2006-08-01 17:17:47 · update #1
There are many possible reasons, so it doesn't help much to speculate. She needs to ask him to find out. Here are I few I can think of, in no particular order:
1) He's mad at her.
2) He thinks this gives him power over her.
3) He is afraid he will be impotent.
4) He is too tired, has a headache, etc.
5) He doesn't find her attractive anymore (IE. since she gained 200 pounds)
6)He has a girlfriend.
7) He has a boyfriend!
8) He is addicted, so he finds jerking off watching porn more exciting.
9) He has a physical injury or other condition that makes sex painful.
10) He has become neurotic enough that his obsession has made him uninterested in sex.
11) His testosterone level has sunk so low that he no longer has any sex drive.
and so on...
All of these are possible, and all have different "cures", so she really needs to have a calm, non-judgmental talk with him.
2006-08-01 17:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by pondering_it_all 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The husband could be having an affair.
The husband could have just lost interest in the wife for physical reasons such as cleanliness.
The husband could have low levels of testosterone and need to take a supplement.
The wife could be letting her self go and not putting on her best face for her husband.
The wife could be constantly nagging for one reason or another and just turns the man off.
2006-08-01 17:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either becoming impotent or he lacks the desire to touch her.
This is normally caused by an action or actions on the part of the female that irritate or anger the male.
2006-08-01 16:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by darkwolfslust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly amazed at how many people thought it was the wife's fault??!! Oh my goodness, because she gained weight??? How in the world did they come to that conclusion? MY first thougth was he is probably cheating, get a private detective and investigate him.
2006-08-01 17:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by AGgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually this happens when the wife gains too much weight.
Diet and exercise almost always fix the problem.
2006-08-01 16:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. gay
2. guilty about something (cheating)
3. tired
4. sexual problems
5. lack of sexual confidence
6. doesn't really like her that much
7. worried about something in his life
2006-08-01 16:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot, like affairs, impotent, wife nt able to excite him. don guess, ask him straight, u will hurt him by making wild guesses
2006-08-01 17:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this happen when a man finds something unclean about his wife and that is why he wont touch her in that way. my opion?
2006-08-01 17:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she should try initiating sex for a change.
2006-08-01 17:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your "friend" that he's probably cheating. Anyway that was the case for me.
2006-08-01 17:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋