is he really a man without?.........?

Question

is he a real man without a proper sex and without making me pregnant? i have been with my bf for a year. we are crasy in love. and i am emotionally and mentally ready for being a mum so is he being a dad. we have tried and i have never reach orgasam but i heard i still can preganat without it. i really want a kid. he smokes. and he is 30 and wear tight jeans i am scared that this will lessen the sperm count. at times i feel like leaving him cause i must also satisfy my physical need. but i don't like to change a new bf. so pls help me

Answer 1

You can get pregnant without an orgasm, in fact, a very small percentage of women can have an orgasm DURING intercourse. The tight jeans DO lessen the chance of a good sperm count, then can actually make a man sterile. Honey, if you love him that much, then sex doesn't matter at all. Make him try new things for you...get a Kama Sutra book.

Answer 2

If you are even having doubts about this relationship then you shouldn't be thinking about having children. Children are not something that you have on a whim because you are "crasy in love" with someone. You need to wait until you are in a relationship in which you have no doubts about because it's hard enough to raise a child with two people there, you don't want to become a single mom.

Answer 3

Reaching orgasm will NOT get you pregnant. Are you two getting in a lot of 'quickies'? Try doing longer sessions with your boyfriend getting close to ejaculation at least 5 times before letting go on the sixth time. This will build up the 'load' that you will receive.

Getting pregnant is like waiting for a pot of water to boil. If you sit there and watch, it takes forever. Back off and don't dwell on getting pregnant and before you know it....bam! Your pregnant.

Answer 4

yes tight clothing may lower his count. i went through 13 years of this and iknow your heart ache. yes you can concieve withouy you having an orgasim. but he does need to have one. lol smoking will indeed ;ower his count..... try elevating your hips after intercourse. at least thirty minutes. Dont stand {i think you understand that } tell bf he could help by " feeing things up and letting the boys cool off. I concieved six years with triplets but lost them.... I now am a proud mother of a thirteen year old Daughter..... dont give up...they doctors found no reason for my situation. my husband does have a low count, may hinder the process but it is possible.......I wish for you babies keep trying

Answer 5

Girl that's all woman for you, I think we're cursed when it comes to having orgasms every time we have sex lol. Anyways depending on when you have your period, wait 7to 10 days after the last day of your period and take a ovulation test you can only get pregnant when your ovulating. Everything else about your boyfriend shouldn't matter.

Answer 6

I think you should talk to each other clearly and do meet a doctor (a Gynecologist)
Only a trained doctor will be able to give proper suggestions and treatments if needed.
Please take an appointment and do not hesitate in this situation.

Answer 7

........and what part of this relationship makes you think that you are caable of starting a family with this man?? If you would leave him from advice on Yahoo Answers.....then wow, again whats wrong with bringing a child in to this world.

Answer 8

First, if you are debating whether or not to leave him, I don't think it's a good idea to have a kid with him.
And out of wedlock. Not that that's bad, it just doesn't promise commitment.

Answer 9

helllooooooo....and how old are you? How can you possibly be reading to be a mom when you don't even know the dynamics of getting pregnant???