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im a student. mistames which i made with my boyfriend made me pregnant . i so wana hav the chil but my guuy doesnt wants it. at 1st i was strict to him that im not goin forthe abortion but as he kept on begging to me to do so. i had no other choice as to agree to him. i luv him way to much. ive done it 1ce him. and i hav to do it again. i don wana go to the clinic and do it. thats y im opposing this question to u guys. pls help me!

2006-08-01 16:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Sindhu 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

13 answers

No man is worth the life of your own son or daughter! If you don't want to abort your child, you DON'T have to do it! You DO have a choice. No one can force you to abort. Your boyfriend obviously cares more about himself than about you and your babies. He should not be asking you to kill your child and put your life and health at risk just to avoid responsibility.

You may love your boyfriend, but your baby is also depending on you, her mommy, for love and protection. Please don't let her down! You can still do the right thing. If your boyfriend REALLY loves you, he will accept your decision and come to love the child, too. If he proves that he doesn't really love you by asking you to do this, why would you want to be with him?

You need to be stronger than this. You need to love and protect your baby. Take a look at:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Your Baby's Development:
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html

By the way, the abortion pill is NOT safe. 12 women have already died from taking it. Here is information about the risks:

http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

2006-08-02 02:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

first the morning after pill is only good for up to 72 hr after intercorse
and about a clinic what ever you do dont go and have a abortion that baby feels it just look on websites they show pic of what that baby looks like after it was aborted thats part of you a baby is way more important then a man i got prego with my first kid at 19 and had her at 20 now im 24 with a 4 yr old girl and a 18 month old boy and thats the best thing ever being a mom ust remember that baby will love u always and always be there for you a b/f may not be there he could breake up and leave never make that mistake but i have no prob with morning after just abortions pluse theres plenty of ppl willing to adopt a new baby and there is a safe haven in hospitals so if you dont want it just leave it with them but once you look in that sweet babys eyes you would be happy you have him or her and love them always

sorry so long but there is no point in abortion when so many ppl are willing to take care of unwanted babys

any questions e-mail me shylilly_665@yahoo.com

2006-08-01 16:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by shylilly_665 3 · 0 0

I'm pro-choice and everything but I don't believe in abusing the right to.
If you keep gettting pregnant why won't you use a condom or get on the birth control pill.
If you keep getting abortions you ruin the chances of getting pregnant again-meaning when you want kids you can't have them. So then you regret having abortions.
Also, I think your boyfriend is a jerk for MAKING you have an abortion, its your choice.

You can only get the abortion pill at a clinic. They have to monitor you for a week or something can seriously go wrong.

You don't just take the pill everytime you get pregnant, stop abusing it and tell your boyfriend to cover his penis.

If you're not going to be responsible then don't have sex.

2006-08-01 16:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Jane 2 · 0 0

look just because you made the mistake and gotten pregnant doesnt mean you have to kill that innocent baby inside you it didnt do anything wrong and if your man really loved you he wouldnt make you get an abortion you should reconsider your relationship and think about raising that baby with or with out him i dont believe in abortions because unless you was raped there be no reason to abort if you dont want the baby at least give birth to it and then give in up for adoption dont kill theinnocent baby love it give it a chance at life like your mother gave you a chance she didnt abort you so why abort your baby its not right to kill for your wrong doing

2006-08-01 16:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0 0

well sounds to me like u should have been on birth control the first time u got pregnant, i don't believe in abortions because to me it's the same thing as murder and as for your boyfriend goes he needs to get a vasectomy and quit making babies that he doesn't want, i think he's a jerk and for u to even consider abortions makes u look like an immature person who can't keep her legs closed, quit having sex and getting pregnant when u don't even won't it, u should feel privileged to even be able to have a baby because theirs alot of women that can't have kids and they want one so bad and here you go trying to kill another innocent life, u should be ashamed.......

2006-08-01 16:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by christina j 3 · 0 0

I'm sorry, I don't know. I think it's hard to find considering that they are still testing it, and developing it to make sure it's safe, and effective. You can easily just have a surgical abortion, though. I don't know if they have planned parenthood there, but they should have cheaper, safe, and discreet abortion clinics.

good luck!

2006-08-01 16:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 4 · 0 0

I think you should have the baby.If you realy dont want it then put it up for adoption.IT would be hard but its better than killing the baby.There are plenty of ppl out there that cant have children and would give anything to have one.

2006-08-01 16:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by wvcountrygirl_93 2 · 0 0

Guess what? Learn to Love and Respect yourself first, and have a decency to respect other people lives' esp. the baby you are carrying now. You do have a choice... and, don't let your BF do the thinking and decision... think girl, think!

~And, I won't tell you :P

And, yeah... dump your boyfriend... pronto!!!

2006-08-01 16:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0 0

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2016-10-01 09:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Why send away, it's just birth control pills and gravol.

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2006-08-01 16:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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