I am 12 years younger than all of my brothers and sisters. They all treat me as if I am still a child. i had a teen pregnancy and lived with my mom. Because I could not support myself and my child alone. So my mom helped us a lot. Now that I am married and expecting baby number 2. They are all acting like nothing is happening. I am almost ready to go any day now and no one has called asked how I feel or what the baby is or a name. they ignore it. They also ignore the son I already have. I dont now what to do anymore. how do I get them to see I am not a young teenager anymore and that I am a great parent. Also how do I get them to like my kids? Lost and upset. What to do?
2006-08-01 16:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately you can't get them or make them do anything, what you can do is tell them how you feel.
You have stated, How do I get them to see I am not a young teenager anymore and that I am a great parent?, I would ask them if that is truly how they are perceiving you. Ask them, Why do you ignore my son?, Also ask, Why do you not seem happy I am going to have another baby? The only way to know the truth is to ask them. Be prepared for the answer you might get, it may be something you want to hear and maybe it won't but once you know for a fact how they feel you can tell them how it makes you feel and maybe things will change but you can't change people. If it works out great, if it doesn't even though it might be painful, you know you are a great mother and you will raise your kids well and know that your family will learn not to treat each other that way.
2006-08-01 16:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by mia 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
properly I dont be responsive to the completed tale at the back of your sister hating your BF, why doesnt she like him? Has he executed something to you interior the previous? i think of your siblings are basically finding out for you. What you're able to do is have dinner, all 4 of you, and characteristic a civil communication, like adults and notice the place all this loopy communicate is coming from. this could be an threat to tutor your loved ones that your guy, is in deed, a good guy (assuming he fairly is).
2016-11-03 12:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them that your a good parnet ask them why don't they accept your childern and how yur living be straight up to them.
2006-08-01 17:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with them and tell them how you feel it might help.
2006-08-01 16:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write one letter telling exactly how you feel and mail it to all of them.
2006-08-01 16:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by opinion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them about how you feel
2006-08-01 16:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by briana j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋