like im 15 and bi but i can never stay in a relationship i need all the help i can get so plz help
2006-08-01 16:18:02 · 18 answers · asked by bark_barkie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
At your age, Barkie, it will be very difficult, sorry. All teen-aged boys are horny, but all of them pursue the girls at your age. That is, until they discover for themselves that girls just don't fulfill their sexual fantasies.
It's a personal thing, girls, don't send me hate email.
When you have aged two or three more years, you will know more guys who are interested in other males. Be patient. Do you have a really good, close friend? You could start out a day with him with alot of sexual inuendo, and end up jacking off together, and see where that leads.............
2006-08-01 16:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 15. I now it seems like the world is passing you by, but trust me, you don't NEED a relationship at 15. If you find one, great, but a lot of people never have a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school, or certainly not before the ages of 17 or 18. Just be a cool guy and you'll find somebody in due time.
2006-08-01 23:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're 15 and you don't need to be in a rush to be in a relationship with anyone. There's nothing wrong with having a nice guy friend, but concentrate on school and other activities. When the time's right, you'll meet that special someone. Find a gay alliance for teens in your area or go online to the gay teen chat rooms(be careful, though! There are a lot of creeps impersonating(gay bashers and psychos) and I don't want you to get hurt!). Just enjoy being a teen and once you get older, your taste for guys will evolve better. Be good!
2006-08-02 00:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray that u realize that you are not bi but a girl torn in 2 directions, u should know that no guy who will respect you would want you to be confused, but should help you fight what ever it is that pulls in the other way, I THANK U SHOULD TRY GETTING YOUR SELF IN ORDER, and maybe the rest of your life will fall in line, what ever u do don't accept that u r bi, JUST SIMPLY ASK GOD TO HELP U, and then go about your life and notice the changes in your life and thank God because He is the only one that can change our hearts
2006-08-01 23:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by JCJC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 15 is still really young to want to get involed in a relationship... but dont try to hard you gotta remember to be yourself and the n the right person will come along maybe your just trying to hard to make a relationship work even though your trying with the wrong person
anywayz good luck in finding someone.
2006-08-01 23:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by *L-I-V-E* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, there are no good guys^^.
second, join a youth gay group, they even make camping and activities.
third, i agree with the myspace idea given by someone here.
And don't worry too much. Be more worried about making good gay friends around your age than finding a relationship. Friends will stay there for you, relationships come and go.
2006-08-01 23:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15- stop worrying about finding mr right. Check out gay organizations and clubs that interest you: baseball, jogging, book clubs, etc. Call the gay center and see what's available for guys your age. Do you have a a gay/straight alliance in your school?
2006-08-05 05:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose the "bi" part of your identity and wait a few years to mature before you start looking for a guy
2006-08-01 23:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Track Walker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep hanging around with people your age and learn to be a good judge of character. Unfortunately, you will likely go through a number of relationships to sharpen your skills at judging character. Enjoy life, experience life, and be patient.
2006-08-01 23:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn this early there is no such thing as a good guy.
To be serious though, you are 15, you should be worried about school more so then dating, the dating will come. Trust me... Wait as long as you can, it really is a huge hassle.
2006-08-01 23:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋