It's extremaly embarassing but I have to leave the sex in the middle and go qickly as possible for the bathroom and them everything already passed, the climax, the moment. I don't know what to do it! Please help me. What canb I do? Should I see a gynecologist for that?
2006-08-01 16:12:04 · 12 answers · asked by Vanessa C 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Believe it or not, it's not uncommon. Try going to the bathroom before things get started. If that doesn't help, by all means talk with your Dr.
2006-08-01 16:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by braingamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some Kegals! You might have to see a doctor, too just to rule out any infections or other abnormalities. You can do Kegals on your own. If you're not sure how to do them or what they should feel like, try to stop the flow of urine while you're going. Those muscles are the ones you'll want to contract during a Kegal exercise. Try to contract them for a count of 5, and do them several times throughout the day. Gradually, you can hold them for longer counts and do them more frequently. This will help you with the urine leaking.
2006-08-01 16:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by chamely_3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has this been going on?
Can I ask your age?
There are all kinds of issues that can contribute to this, and this is not "typicall" but probably not that unsual.
There might be something going on with your bladder, that during sex, you are triggering a false need to relieve your bladder, so perhaps you need to see your regaular Dr. first and then get a referral if needed over to the Gyn.
I'm pretty sure there are some excerises you can do that might help reduce this reaction when you are going to have sex.
Can you press on your abdomen and cause a similar reaction?
I don't know if you remember or have experienced this, but when we would go on a long car trip, my parents would always tell us to try pressing there, to try and go to the rest room, BEFORE we left....
Maybe you can do something like that?
Good luck
2006-08-01 16:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by alpine_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just think you have to. Try urinating before sex. Warn your boyfriend ahead of time, put down some rubber sheets, and let if fly once. See what it really is. I am willing to bet that it isn't actually urine. Some women actually ejaculate. Talk to your gyno if you are really concerned.
2006-08-01 16:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh get a plastic liner for your bed tell your mate get to bangin and let it flow let it flow let it flow!!! don't be embarassed do go see a doctor but the sex may be so exciting you lose control in more ways than one I does not sound like a problem just an inconvienence but it seems manageable Good Luck!!!
2006-08-01 16:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Monte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to the toilet before sex and if you do get the feeling, just let go - women can ejaculate too, and this is usually the feeling they get. It's worth a shot once, isn't it?
2006-08-01 16:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by * tj * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is getting really close to the g spot and you are going to orgasim. You might be a squirter- don't you listen to Love Line with Dr. Drew?!
2006-08-01 17:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the gyne stuff, but you better share this quirk with your lover. If he is understanding it should not be a problem. Maybe you can even make a game of it.
2006-08-01 16:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find R. Kelly
2006-08-01 16:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by WORDZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a good situation... i might like for my bf to easily have the skill to maintain going and going.... probable undesirable for you however.... a million small question..... Can u ejaculate on an identical time as masterbating?
2016-11-03 12:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋