When I go to ask for a raise at work, I get nervous. Any ideas what I should try doing?

Answer 1

First, realise if you want to ask for a raise, you have to convince them you are worth it. Also, realise that asking for a raise is okay. Point out how you may have improved on things around there, taken on extra tasks, implemented a new plan for something, etc. Also the length of time since you have had a raise might help. Finally, point out that workers often like to have enouragement to know how they can get a raise and ask if there is anything else you can do to merit one in future. You care about the company and the goals, see how you can be a contributor to the firm.

Answer 2

Sell it!!! You have to realize your boss is a person. He/she has feelings, doubts and nerves. Try being honest: "I would like to talk with you about my performance the past 6 months. Do you have time? I feel a bit nervous, so please excuse me. (here is where you "sell" the fact that you deserve the raise)

My experience is that this is similar to stage-fright, and just like stage-fright, once you get started, it seems to go away. Just DO IT, and get it overwith.

The worst thing that will happen is your boss (who is a person) will gently tell you "no" or "not right now"

Ask what you need to accomplish to earn the raise, and then do it. In 6 more months, get your nerves and go ask again.

Life experience will get rid of this in time.

Answer 3

Try writing things down. What new responsibilities have you assumed since you first took the job? Have you taken any classes or learned any new skills that would benefit the company? I managed a fast food place, and people would come and read letters to me. If you work in an office, it's especially important to take note of job changes. Good luck.

Answer 4

Nervousness is common in these situations. I suggest you submit your request in writing. Let the "Request for a raise" letter help break the ice. Your boss may respond with a letter or call you in and talk to you about the raise. You don't have to mention to your boss about your nervousness unless you're comfortable sharing such as issue.

Answer 5

have specific reasons why you deserve a raise, name projects that you helped be successful, anything you improved on, if its a numbers job be prepared to know the scale of times you have exceeded goals, anything you can be specific about.
being prepared will help you be less nervous and confident
good luck! I hope you get your raise

Answer 6

It is not advice for your nervousness, but I advice you to read a book called "Rich Dad & Poor Dad" http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0446677450/sr=8-1/qid=1154488593/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-9926927-4416907?ie=UTF8
and read costumers review about this book.
Financial education might be a good way to make money.
Allah made reason for everything.
Thank you.

Answer 7

how about every time you do something FAB you point out "boy that's worth a woppin raise!" and giggle. then once say "no really" what do you think? to your boss.

Answer 8

try emailing him