what are all the things u have to do in order to have sex but not get pregnant?

Question

im 13 and i want to have sex with my bf but i dont want to her pregnant.... but plz dont tell me dont do it wait till ur older i already made up my mind

Answer 1

Um, use protection? Ther's actually no possible way to be 100% safew from sex except Abstinance. So just use a condom. Itt's the best option.

Answer 2

Do this. Sit down and run through your head your life the moment you learn you are pregnant. Imagine having to tell your parents, having everyone stare at you at school, having a baby and your boyfriend isn't in the hospital with you, he'll be off with another girl. I'm a sophomore in high school. This will happen if something goes wrong. Is it really worth the risk? If you wait until you get married you can have sex everyday if you want, and you don't have to hide from your parents, or worry about getting caught. Start going to church. Become a christian. Make something out of your life. Do you have dreams? If you get pregnant you have NO HOPE of accomplishing those dreams. I hope you make the right decision. I'm praying to God to help you, and if i never hear from you again, I hope that God gave you the sense not to ruin or risk ruining your life. There is always a chance, a risk.

Answer 3

oh gosh. i have to tell u to wait. im 19...i did it when i was 16 just to not be a virgin cause it was cool to have had sex. i regret it because a year later i found the love of my life. i wish i would have waited for him to be my first. ur boyfriend right now will not be there for u later. i guarantee it. u are so young and relationships that young dont last. i remember having like 10 boyfriends in 7th grade. look around u....dont u see all ur friends w/ a different boyfriend every month??

well if u dont want to get pregnant u NEED to ask your mom to put u on birth control pills. condoms break to easily, come off, or are defective. u need another contraceptive. if u are still gonna decide to do it and not ask ur mom for the pill....be sure he uses a condom and there is a little air bubble at the top (that means there isnt a hole). whenever he cums....make sure he pulls his penis out of you (this way even if the condom is broke the *** wont get inside of u).

WAIT THOUGH. PLEASE. U WILL REGRET IT. IM 19 AND I KNOW THIS. FIND SOMEONE YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH AND HAVE BEEN WITH FOR ATLEAST 6 MONTHS.

Answer 4

I Was 14 when I first had sex. I know that you have your mind made up but I really think you should wait. Guys at that age have no idea what they are doing and neither do you. The guy gets his and your left there disappointed. Plus, do you have a plan for if you do get pregnant? No method of protection is 100%. If your going to have sex though, most school now days have birth control programs where they will help you get pills with out your parents knowing. Check on that. Plus, always use a condom even if you are on the pill. If he refuses to wear one, refuse to have sex.

Answer 5

Hey - as long as you're ready to be a mother, and your boyfriend is ready to be a father, bust a move, and get it on. The only 100% foolproof way to not get pregnant is to not have sex. If you think that you are old enough to have sex, than you are also saying you are old enough, and responsible enough, to be a parent. And yes, you CAN get pregnant your first time. That will be fun, won't it? Trying to go to school and be a mother at the same time? Or maybe you can just drop out of school, go on welfare and be a drain on society. Great way to bring an innocent life into the world. Good God, you're 13 - be a kid while you can. There's plenty of time to have sex later on. I promise you that you WILL regret your decision if you follow through with it. Oh yeah, and hope you don't get a life-long STD either. If you think your boyfriend will respect you for it, or stay with you, you are sadly mistaken. Revel in your childhood while you can - celebrate it - I would give anything to go back to your age and know what I know now.

Answer 6

You have to become a self efficient and self sustaining and productive adult. The only way you can prevent pregnancy 100% of the time is by not having sex. I have a 4 yr old son that was conceived while i was on birth control and we were using condoms, 100% of the time. You cannot prevent pregnancy unless you don't have sex.

Answer 7

well i your so sure and you want to try this than i guess its okay as long as you use protection...my first time was when i was 14...well you can use condoms, there is this gel you can buy that kills sperm the girl is supposed to put it inside of her vagina i think about an hour before having sex and this will kill any sperm if the condom breaks...i would tell you to use birth control pills but u can get them because u are to young....other than that i think you should pull out before you ejaculate eventhough you have a condom....well have fun be safe and make sure u know what u are doing and that you wont regret it

Answer 8

Look at it this way hun, when your baby is 15 you will be 28...sweet huh? you will be the young mom that all your teens friends love, if she doesnt have a baby by then either.

what horrible outlook on life. nothing is 100% effective, understand this and do your reasherch. i know 3 girls that got pregnant WITH a condom

It isnt worth it. his littl ehorney *** will dump you anyway.



It's against my personal beliefes to tell yo this because even i don't really agree with them when you are so young...but...
there are better ways to deal with sexual tension. try oral, if not that..dry sex? wanna knwo what that is because i doubt that you do, too young, look it up. do your own research.

Answer 9

There is absolutely nothing that is 100% safe.....check out all the 13 year olds with babies. So you've made up your mind that you want to be another statistic....a teen-age mom? So sad.

Answer 10

Abstinence. DO NOT HAVE SEX AT 13!!!! How dumb can you be?

But, if you're that dumb, birth control pills, condom.

And when you get pregnant, or break up (which WILL happen in no more than 2 months) you will regret it.