okay, this guy ryan likes me, and he thinks he loves me, but i hardly know him, and i like a guy clayton, but hes a year older, they both go to different schools then me. and i dont know if clayton likes me or not but he acts like it..his dad lives acrossed the street from me and he tells me everything...and i like clayton alot more than ryan, but i dont want to hurt his feelings, what should i do??
2006-08-01 16:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Teen drama.
2006-08-01 16:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Gorilla Hands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ryan to cool his jets....
Just like you said, he doesnt even know you and so he might love the thought of you, but until you can talk and be friends, he is uninformed.
Friends first is your policy, with both boys. Keep that up and the true gentlemen will rise to the top. There is no rush at your age. Slow down and get to know them as friends first. If they cant handle that, then they have shown what they are made of.
You must be friends first!
2006-08-01 16:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by besttobefriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to hurt his feelings, once I dated a guy I didn't like just so I wouldn't hurt his feelings, and it was the worst 6 months of my life, he was dull, and boring and a disgusting pervert.
Tell him you are not interested, or that you are already dating someone.
2006-08-01 16:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by munich13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Don't lead someone on or do nothing. State how you feel just like you did in this question.
2006-08-01 16:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY, SO THIS IS CLASSIC CYNTHIA DRAMA, SO WHAT, SOME OTHER GUY LIKES YOU, BUT CAN YOU REALLY SEE YOURSELF WITH HIM?WE BOTH KNOW THAT IF YOU STAY WITH THIS RYAN GUY, ITS NOT LIKE YOUR DOING HIM ANY FAVORS, AND YOUR NOT DOING YOURSELF ANY EITHER. NOBODY WANTS TO BE WITH SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH THEM, WOULD YOU WANT HIM TO BE WITH YOU FOR SYMPATHY? IT'LL BE HARD, BUT YOU CANT BE WITH SOMEONE YOU DONT WANT TO BE WITH
2006-08-01 16:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by CYNTHIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, always the best policy, easiest to remember
2006-08-01 16:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by graymatterz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school, you need it more than looking for a boyfriend.
2006-08-01 16:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, ryan will get over it. if he doesnt then it is his problem.
you cannot always make everyone happy .
2006-08-01 16:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by yuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen drama...no kidding! Don't miss those days at all...
2006-08-01 16:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋