I am in a fight with my wife, my inmauture 10 yr old boy wzatches her change the diapers of 2 yr old girls...

Answer 1

Big bloody deal! Did you come across on the Plymouth as a puritan?
Your attitude is probably the most damaging thing in this picture.
So the 10 year old brother sees what needs to be done with a toddler, what was done to him earlier in his life too. Maybe he'll be able to help his mother with some of that, since you are obviously useless.
Jeez!

Answer 2

Wow people are being harsh to you. I can see your concern. The children are at the point where he is old enough to make these distinctions between males and females and the little girl is getting older. There has to be some cutoff where this stops because obviously it will be wrong at some point of the game. I think it may be time to sit him in the other room at diaper time. The girls are no longer babies so it is a little different. If your boy is making inmature comments..you should especially keep him away before this continues: he will be going through puberty in a few years and you do not want him to have any bad ideas

Answer 3

Sometimes I wonder where people have there heads, are you sitting on your shoulders?

Generally the last thing a 10 year old boy has on his mind is girls. He probably just has a curiosity and maybe a desire to help.

If you make this out to seem like a dirty thing then he too will start to think that way too, is that the impression you want to leave with him about girls?

It's funny, it isn't right for a 10 year old to be curious, which opens a big opportunity for you to have a serious talk with him, but then when he reaches 16 and starts dating you expect him to know all there is about girls and sex without any education from you. Duh!

Get your head out of the sand (if that's what you call it) and sit down with the 10 year old and start to talk with him and find out why he is watching. If it's curiosity then talk with him and explain the differences in language he can understand. Educate the boy, don't berate him. Hmmmmm. . . . . . maybe you will learn something too.

Answer 4

Umm...so? I don't see the problem...so what if your 10 year old son watches your wife change a 2 year old girls diapers...if the child has younger sisters, then odds are he's watched diapers being changed.

I personally think it is you who has the problem. Grow up, and get your filthy mind out of the gutter. And stop thinking that just because your son sees a 2 year olds private parts he's thinking about sex. That is your thinking...not his.

Answer 5

Easy there, people. There's no need to start a flame-war over someone's concern here, and I'm sure that all of your insults won't fix anything, either. So, save your fingers and your time - if you've nothing constructive to say, then just ... don't.

Now, while I'm sure that your son getting anatomy lessons while his sister's diaper is being changed will undoubtedly unnerve you, I don't think it's a cause for concern. Naturally, young people are curious - about everything. The word of advice here is to not get anxious about it, and especially watch how you act around your son when it happens. The old addage goes, "Monkey see, monkey do." Well, if you flip your lid over this, your son will make it a national issue as well. Just remember - stay calm. Things are only as bad as you make them out to be.

If you're REALLY concerned with it, ask him if he'd like to help his mom out. If he doesn't want to, then ask him to go do something else, as his standing around is getting in the way of his mom's duties. If he wants to help, let him help - it'll give him something to do other than standing there gawking at your daughter. In this way, you could make him useful and potentially eliminate the undesired behavior at the same time.

Hope this helps!

Answer 6

Trust me on this one...your 10 year old doesn't think it is near as big of a deal as you think it is. The most important thing for you both to do, as parents, is to be ready to answer his questions honestly and in common language. If he is 10, he is about 4th grade or so, and in many public schools that is about the grade for the "sex" talk at school. Just relax and take a deep breath...this is not the end of the world. If this is the biggest issue you and your wife have to argue about, consider yourselves blessed.

Answer 7

if you have twin girls,I'm sure your wife could use some help.Sounds like your 10 year old is being the man of the house by helping with the diaper changes.
Step up to the plate and do your job....dad !

Answer 8

If you are concern about this issues as a father. Ask your wife to please not change the baby in the presence of her brother. He may not be abnormal just curious. Talk to him and explain to him that boys and girls have different body parts. get on YOUR job father.

Answer 9

I agree, ten year old boys should know how to change diapers.

Answer 10

INMAUTURE....Oh, let me see...YOU are immature. Do you expect a 10 year old boy to be MATURE? Come on, why did you drop out of school? By the way, go back to school and learn how to spell.