My best friend is ALWAYS on the phone when I spend the night at her house, not just late into the night, no, from the time I show up, until I leave the next day she'll be on the phone with her boyfriend. Sometimes she'll even talk to him when she's at my house, not just a ten minute conversation, no, she'll be on the phone for HOURS. Do you think that's rude of her?
2006-08-01 15:31:33 · 21 answers · asked by semper_fidelus07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My friend does the exact same thing, only she'll use my house phone to make the call, and her boyfriend lives three states away. Right now my car's messed up so I can't leave her house when she pulls that ****, I feel your pain. All I can say is constantly keep intrupting her, eventually she'll get the message that you two are spending time together, not them.
2006-08-01 15:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some friends have such a close relationship and comfort factor with one another that they at times do things that would be considered rude by others. I personally think talking on the phone while guests are present, best friends or not, is rude unless the call is an emergency, of course. The cell phone phenomena has made this situation all too common, for now everyone is accessible everywhere, and any environment is now ripe for frequent interruptions by callers. I would bring my feelings to your friend's attention -- not fuss at her -- but let her know that you would like to have some time talking with her when you two are together. I have found that it is necessary to let others know when something bothers me ... most of the time my friends had no idea .... Your friend may be the same way. Good luck!
2006-08-01 15:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced! it really is surely rude and also you've were given each precise to be disenchanted and walk out (i imagine it changed into tremendous of you to attend an complete hour)! If she's a chum worth preserving, you need to only enable her comprehend that you value her friendship, yet that you don't like having to wait for her even as she's on the phone, highly because it style of appears like it really is exceeded off better than once. If she's a reliable chum, she'll comprehend that she's being disrespectful. I once said 2 acquaintances sitting at dinner in a eating position, and between the girls folk changed into on the phone 1/2 the time (precise up till the nutrients arrived)! i could not believe it. do not human beings comprehend how rude it truly is and that i want human beings could only give up talking on their damn phones in eating places.
2016-11-27 20:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by svatos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thats VERY VERY rude, I bet when he's with her she doesn't call u ( right). She shouldn't do that because when ur staying the night it's should be girls night. U gonna have to tell her that u wish that whenever ur staying the night she wouldn't talk on the phone with the b/f so much. If she does it again next time either tell her ur leaving or just leave , once she gets off the phone she may notice your gone
2006-08-01 17:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is very rude. I would tell her to not expect you over at her house anymore if she is going to be on the phone while you're there. And I wouldn't invite her over either. Her boyfriend sounds more important than anything right now.
2006-08-01 15:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very rude! I would ask her to stop. And if she didn't I would stop hanging at each others houses. When she asks why, I would tell her, it's no fun hanging out with myself while you are on the phone with your bf.
But keep the friendship going by hanging out outside of the house, where phone access is less likely.
It would be rude of you not to tell her how you feel.
2006-08-01 16:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's totally sending a message that you aren't interesting enough to deserve her attention. The next time you're at her house and she gets on the phone, leave a note telling her to call you when she's not so busy, and leave.
2006-08-01 15:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its rude to invite you and then not hang out with you. But if its a 10 minute convorsation or something like that. Then I dont think its rude. But if its like what your saying... then its rude.
2006-08-01 15:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tom K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..that's very rude..just tell her you wanna go home or sumthin the next time she does it and talk to her about it..my cousin is the same way.
2006-08-01 15:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course its down right rude..........since she is ur best friend tell her this annoys you.......and if she still continues ..then imitate her.. u pick up ur phone and spend time wit ur other 5rnds vn she is not over phone. ......If she feels left out she wud realise her mistake....
2006-08-01 15:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by Maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋