2006-08-01 14:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by joe 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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He needs to go out and meet new people. It is obvious the people he knows now are not his cup of tea. Also, it is not necessary to be biased; friends of other colors are still friends.
2006-08-08 14:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a great quote I absolutely adore. I can't for the life of me think of who said it, but it goes like this:
In order to have a friend, one must be a friend.
Get with it man, your life is passing you by...wake up and smell the need! In the Bible, it says that the harvest is plenty, but the laborers are few. Translation? There is PLENTY of opportunity to do good things (THAT WILL come back to you by the way), but far too many people with their thumbs up their rear to ever bother actually lifting a finger to get started. What can you do? Be a big brother or sister, volunteer at a homeless shelter, join a program that cleans up your town or neighborhood, go to church, join a band, take music lessons, start a walking group, join a meditation class, take a form of martial arts, go to the park, help an old lady across the street...do you get the picture?????
2006-08-09 11:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Angel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to be more social, I know because I am trying to make more friends because I'm very shy and not social at all. Join some kind of club that you'll probably make friends in and talk and have a good time you don't wanna end up almost at your time to die and realize that you weren't happy.
2006-08-08 19:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by puppiilv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a friend is how you conduct yourself as you are presented to their senses. The needs and needs to be dones in yourself present opportunities to meet people. We order ourselves acording to our responsibilities to ourselves, including who we spend time with and for what reason. Make every reason that you have to meet people to be the best person you can be in whatever way you may afford of yourself. As you yourself sense each individual person for who he or she is, know your reason for reacting to their actions the way you do as you do. Are your reactions right? are you defensive to the point of cutting yourself off from learning more about this person other than superfacial facts. The ordinary people around you in your daily life are people with needs like you but different.
Go into business for yourself and discover what it is to balance the social reality of doing business with real people against your material interests in them. Only good can come from a person who wills to do good, but it is a struggle. Not all wrongs are of criminal intent. That is why we need to learn.
2006-08-01 22:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a self help book about how to make friends with tips on how to approach people with small talk....or go see a counselor about boosting your self esteem. If you are confident and it shows people are automatically drawn to you and want to be your friend no matter what situation you are in.........or...masterbate that's always fun
2006-08-01 21:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join www.wholivesnearyou.com and start making friends! I made over 30 friends over a period of 2 months!
2006-08-01 22:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by isabsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punt
2006-08-07 18:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Beejee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start making new friends and not be lonely?
Coz a lonely friend will be oxy-moron
2006-08-01 21:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Stubertsg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off yahoo, and go outside. meet a neighbor. go to the club. get out there NOW! you'll meet friends, just open up a little.
2006-08-06 02:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by groverlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to one person at a time then it gets easier.......
2006-08-08 17:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋