I just found out that my boyfriends dad was in a car accident. his dad is fine, but im not sure my bf is. i just talked to him on the phone and he sounded kinda down. i asked him if he was ok, or worried about his dad. he said he was ok and that he wasnt worried about his dad, but he just wasnt himself on the phone. we usually talk on the phone for about an 1hour and 1/2, but this time we only talked for about thirty minutes. how do i make him feel better?
2006-08-01 14:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He could still be in shock from what happened. Is his dad in the hospital? If you've met his parents before & he is still confined, then you could buy him a get well card so that you boyfriend sees your concern. Just allow your dude some time because most guys don't just speak their minds like we do. If everything is truly okay then this will pass soon.
2006-08-01 14:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend was just a little shaken hearing about the accident. Give him a day or two and don't push him. He'll talk about it if he wants to. As long as his dad is fine, your boyfriend should be fine within a day or two. Maybe it wasn't even abotu the accident, sometimes people seem out of it when they are tired or distracted. Just be there for him if he wants to talk. If he is still acting this way a few days from now, its not about the accident, and you have something else to deal with.
2006-08-01 14:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by aroybal854 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I imagine it was kind of a hectic day. He may be tired or not in the mood to talk if there was a lot of chaos. So give him a break and don't stress. He will probably be his old self tomorrow or for the weekend.
2006-08-01 14:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by hotchic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to calm down and relax...don't pay attention to all the negativity you are feeling and thinking. just be a good listener to your bf and hope. you can pray and ask that God would protect them from any serious harm from the accident. take care and I do hope all will be ok.
2006-08-01 14:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just give him his space, but make sure he knows you're there for him if he needs you. Don't worry, I'm sure he'll get better soon.
2006-08-01 14:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs time to make sense of life for him self. if him an his father oour close well he just realized how prescoius life is.
2006-08-01 14:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. if he wants to confide how he feels, he will. just let him know you are available if he needs you, and let him be alone with himself.
2006-08-01 14:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by caelestisinferno64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋