I do not mind most of friends being perverted about relationships with females.
But my best friend likes to talk about two guys doing similar things. I think he does to just to see my reaction. I always get a bit nervous, and clumsy, and blush a lot when he talks about things like that. I cannot help it, it's just my natural reaction!
2006-08-01 14:13:41 · 15 answers · asked by William 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
'Talking' about things is not perverted. Doing most things is not perverted.
Who are you to decide what is acceptable or not?
Are you very young?
2006-08-01 19:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Trish D 5 · 11⤊ 5⤋
First of all, I do not know your age, I am thinking that you are a younger person from the wording of your explanation of the question. Perverted conversation about peoples' relationships with each other is just not acceptable. If you are uncomfortable with your "best friend" talking about two guys in that manner, why is it okay for a guy to speak of a "female" in that manner. Being a female, that is quite offensive and very unacceptable. I do not think that any person speaking about another person should be speaking in a perverted manner. It is very disrespectful to the people around them, and shows a great deal of disrespect and self-loathing on their part. If you are obviously uncomfortable around the two guy comments you need to speak up about it. Think about how you would feel if some guy would speaking in such a manner about your mother, or sister or brother for that manner. People deserve to be to be treated with respect, and if you and your best friend do so; you will find that you will both get treated with more respect also! I hope I have not been too harsh, but I do believe that you needed to have a bit of a reality check!!! Have a good night!!!!
2006-08-01 21:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy you need to learn earn how to control and manage yourself in certain situations. How are you supposed to act in the middle of a straight converstion where the main topic is a little bit unconfortable?
2006-08-01 21:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be honest and just tell him straight up it makes you uncomfortable to talk about that....or you can figure out why it makes you uncomfortable.
Bisexuality has been around for many years...even before Christianity made it bad. The Romans took their lovers to war with them....they felt it made better warriors when they did.
2006-08-01 21:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by rainysnana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could just get over yourself, listen, have fun with the nonsense. It really can be funny. Or you could tell him it makes you nervous, in which case he will stop, and probably stop hanging around with you much.
2006-08-01 22:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow your hetero friends to speak rudely about women you should be worried about telling them not to be so perverted.
Tell your hetero friends to stop and your gay friends will too and it will show respect for everyone
2006-08-01 21:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate sundae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can accept him being open about heterosexual relationships, but not homosexual relationships, that's kind've stupid.
If it makes you uncomfortable though, just tell him to stop or change the conversation.
2006-08-01 21:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to my friend if he was being perverted " Please don't talk about stuff like that cause it makes me feel weird when you do and i don't like it." Cause I had to say that to someone before and it worked for me.
2006-08-01 21:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by earplug1616 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sooo sweet. I think you should sit down with him and talk mano-o-mano, tell him that you value your friendship together and that you dont want to jeopardise it. Be sure to do this in a publc arena...you dont want him to pounce on you...lol
2006-08-01 22:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! I think the sooner you learn to dish it out as well as he does, he'll back off.
2006-08-01 21:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not interested. Then change the subject.
2006-08-01 21:17:12 · answer #11 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋