i dont like you looking at me and thinking iam stupid?

Question

so i have a slight physical handicapp and you all look at me as if im stupid. Ive answered peoples questions like theres nothing wrong with me. i have children and live an almost normal life.

Answer 1

I have no idea what you're talking about. How can I look at you as if you are stupid, if I can't see you? All I can see is the words you type. I really couldn't care less that you have a "slight physical handicap". I've got a medium to large physical disability and have never used it as an excuse. Why are you? How can anyone judge you for a handicap over the computer unless you've told them you are disabled, and how?

So you have a disability. Get over it. Move on. Live your life like everyone else. I do. Sure I have to make adjustments and such to get through the day, but so does everyone....whether or not they're phsyically disabled. No one's going to make a big deal out of it if you don't. And if they do, you can just consider that their disability and smile at them and move on. Who cares what they think?

You put entirely too much store into the judgement of others.