Do you think a husband should have a problem with his wife having male friends?

Answer 1

No unless the wife is giving them any "benefits." Otherwise it should be ok.

Answer 2

No.. from my expirience.. (my ex..) it never turns out good.. usually the friendship between the wife and her male friends will not last very long due to the fact that the husband has problems with them .. which will lead to jelousy and fights among the two of you .. and this will make the wife to kinda resent the husband for the friendship ending also whenever the wife is mad at the husband .. she will most likely go to those male friends that the husband has a problem with ., as kinda a way to ge t back at him ... and those friends won't really speak soo highly of the husband to the wife.....

Answer 3

no as long as the male is a friend to both the husband AND wife but the wife should not be going out alone with him

Answer 4

There is a fine line. If you are lucky enough to have a caring discerning wife, she will not cross that line. If she does on accident, usual good communication can solve that. Any people of opposite sex sharing closeness have the ability to fall in the wrong way. So go ahead and have male friends, or visa versa, but do it with caution and remember to love your mate more than having to have all your personal needs met.

Answer 5

Depends. Because I have a few married friends that they actually get some side action from their male friends. I'm not judging but I say never give your man any reason to feel he shouldn't be able to trust you around anyone male. Including the mail man.

Answer 6

Would you have a problem if your husband was friends with women? Friends are one thing, but once you cross a line into actually hanging out continuously or discussing personal details then that's going too far. I have male friends, my hubby has girl friends, but when it comes to hanging out, we do that as a couple.

Answer 7

No he shouldn't have a problem if he has female friends. There should be some type of trust in the relationship until shown differently. Being jealous is OK as long as it's not extreme, which can cause problems in the relationship.

Answer 8

Just as long as one's husband is the ultimate best friend on the planet, everything is fine. Only an insecure man would have doubts about their wife.

Answer 9

It all depends on what "friends" mean. Is it someone you socailize with generally in a group setting, or are you isolating. Are you and yer "friend" comfortable around your husband?? Do you and yer friend act the same alone as you do around other people. Are you confiding in this friend??? To socailize with males is fine, but when you start hanging out with them too much or alone or start to confide in them then there is a problem, cuz I strongly believe that with 90% of hetro-males we don't have female friends... just women that we haven't F@CKED... YET!!!!

Answer 10

No way! He should trust his wife enough to let her pick her own friends. If he doesn't want her hanging out with other men, what he's really saying is that he doesn't trust her to be faithful to him when she is given the opportunity not to be.
Unless she has given him a reason not to trust her there is no reason why he should object. Noone should be made to choose between their relationship and their friends, regardless of gender.

Answer 11

You have to put yourself in his shoes. If you were the man, how would you feel if your wife was friends with alot of men? Would it be ok, with you if your husband had alot of beautiful female friends? Don't do anything that you wouldn't want your husband to do.