how can I get my hubby to make love to me more then he does?

Answer 1

Think back to your courtship. What did you do, wear, say that appealed to him and got his motor running? Things have just gotten a little stale; don't get discouraged. Let him know in little ways by verbage, cards, meals, cute outfits that he still turns you on. Find out if he is not feeling well, is tired, overworked, stressed. If so, see an MD, or plan a vacation break. There is a book out by Dr. Tim LaHaye and Beverly LaHaye called "The Act of Marriage". It is focused and designed for married couples, and should be read in privacy as a couple. It will enlighten you as to the complexity of marriage and shows physical Biblical ways of pleasing each other within the proper perspective.

Answer 2

Perhaps, your lovemaking has gotten stale, and you are still doing the same old thing, time after time.That can be boring for both of you.
Assuming you haven't put on weight or let yourself go, otherwise, and are still attractive to him, then you need some games to spice up your sex life.
Get some sex stories, or porn vids, there are million on line, and check them out, see if there isn't something you haven't tried but wanted to try.
Talk it over with hubby, he may have some good ideas, talking about a problem, is a great way to solve it.

Answer 3

That depends, try seducing him for a change. Many guys like that more. And depends on how much he works too or any stress he is under. Because some guys don't like sex as much when they are under pressure. So try running him a nice bath, where you tell him you are going to wash him all over and then after that give him a all over massage, kissing different places other than where you are massaging. So it should keep get him up and excited.

Answer 4

You need to get him in the mood for sex. So try initiating it yourself like seduce him. Think back to when you were dating and what did he like than a sexy dress the effort you put in? Also remember the libido can go down due to stress overrworked etc maybe a vacation is needed. Seriously tell him you l0ove making love to him but wish you could have more time to do it more ofter and see what he says.

Answer 5

One either loves or doesn't. No such thing as more or less love. Love is a consistant attitude where one values the life of others. What do you expect?

looking at the other people's answers makes me sick! What does sex have to do with love? Love isn't a mere feeling, it has sane reasoning too!

Answer 6

2 QUESTIONS? HOW LONG ARE YOU MARRIED? AND ARE YOU OVER WEIGHT? IF YOU ARE MARRIED A LONG TIME YOUR HUBBY MAYBE IN A LAZY MOOD AND HAVE FORGOTTEN YOU HAVE SEXUAL NEEDS THAT NEED TO BE TAKEN CARE OF. SECOND QUESTION ARE YOU OVER WEIGHT AND DO YOU LOOK AFTER YOU APPEARENCE AND IS THE HOUSE LOOKING LIKE A GARBAGE DUMP? SIT DOWN AND THINK WOULD YOU LIKE WAKE UP TO SOMETHIG THAT PUTS YOU OFF YOU BREAKFAST AND BE EXPECTED TO COME HOME TO IT AND MAKE MAD PASSIONATE LOVE TO IT? SORRY BUT YOU HAVE TO BE CRUEL TO BE KIND.

Answer 7

Talk to him and then give him more opportunities. It is difficult having intimate time with your partner when you have children, but it is possible. Put the kids in bed earlier or arrange for someone to watch them so you can spend "quality time" with your man.

Answer 8

At what times are you trying to have sex
What has his day been like
Try to be his fanatsy
Be seductive and aggressive
Try new places and things
Try to be romantic
Felatio durning a sporting event
Spicy it up

Answer 9

watch a program you love on tv and at every commercial have sex. play poker and if the last winning number was 5 have sex for 5 min and so on till you are all exhausted.

Answer 10

How do I get my wife to do the same ? Some people just lose the libido and want not. Then others (like me) can't get enough !