Why do I do it, maybe cause I HATE THE LIVING HELL OUT OF HER!!! She says she loves me, yet she talks about other guys being cute and stuff. I HATE HER
2006-08-01 13:24:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
P.S. BECAUSE I LIKE PISSING HER OFF AND HATE HER! I DON'T WANT HER TO BE HAPPY
2006-08-01 13:30:22 · update #1
Have you spoken to her about this? Asked her not to talk about other guys that way in front of you? If you asked her not to do it, and she still continues to do it - well, then that's messed up. Either way, it is kinda disrespectful. The thing with people who are disrespectful - sometimes they don't know that they're being disrespectful, and you've just got to educate them.
I was in the same situation as you - my boyfriend would always go on and on and on and on about other women and their bodies. I asked him to stop, and when he didn't - I dumped his stupid ***. Good Luck to you...
2006-08-01 13:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sahara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that she's being disrespectful to you when she talks about other guys. She wants you to get upset and stop thinking, and to be insecure (thinking that she can leave you for someone else). This is known as playing mindgames on you.
You will have to chill, first of all. She's making you feel bad on purpose, but when you cheat, it makes you feel bad too, and it gives her more leverage. It's best if you break off one relationship before starting another.
The next time she starts talking about other guys, you just sit back and call her bluff. say "Why are you telling me this? Do you want to hurt my feelings? Does it make you feel good when I feel bad? That means that you are an evil person at heart. I don't think we can be friends." If she leaves, good riddance.
2006-08-01 20:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, dude you have security issues. You need to just back off of relationships, and sit back till you are secure with yourself. Life is too short to worry about your gf saying a guy is cute, If she says she loves you, and the only thing she even says about guys is that some of them are cute, that gives you no right to cheat on her. You shouldn't cheat period. Besides that, If you HATE her then why are you in this thing to begin with eh??
2006-08-01 20:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Crash37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have her then why do you date her?
2006-08-01 20:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cheat on your girlfriend because you are a dog. ruff, ruff! What people who love someone can't talk to other people ? If you hate her break up with her. Maybe then you can be happier with yourself and find someone to be with who instead of bringing out insane jealousy in you someone who can enjoy your company. Get well. Do you really think it's good to stay with anyone who brings out hate??? Seriously, think about it. Be with people who bring out the best in you. It's a sign she's not good for you & vice versa if you reap hate from the relationship. Bail out.
2006-08-01 20:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, Take one of the other girls you were with out, and be happy, Just follow what you think is right.....Have Fun! Or grab a beer and hope you will die before she finds out that you cheated on her
2006-08-01 20:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by LonelyPsycho...I Need A Hug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you kinda answered your own question....
your girl doesnt forefill you, you feel used by her and cheating (in your mind) is a way of getting even with her.
You can continue doing this and live a miserable life, or you can dump her and move on and find a girl that will give you what you need, the choice is yours.
2006-08-01 20:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just answered your own question. Hey, mr. maturity, do you have eyes that work? can you see girls that are pretty, hot, foxy, sexy? well, I'm guessing your girl's eyes work also, but is she with you, even though she can see, right? hope she leaves you, since you can justify your cheating ways, you cad.
2006-08-01 20:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then y do u even fricken care if u cheat on her?! if u rly hate her that much...u probably shouldnt be wit her
2006-08-01 21:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by tink3rb3ll_gurll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to cheat on her, why don't you just break the relationship?
2006-08-01 20:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋