sure, its not love but i'm in huge "like" with a guy 10 years my senior. I am 18 and very mature, I'm in college and I got my life plans set out (which include grad school). I don't drink or smoke, and I never have (again, I'm tring to show maturity). is it wrong of me to like the guy?
2006-08-01 13:07:20 · 17 answers · asked by smarin1987 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he's never been married, he has no kids (I don't wouldnt want to get into that situation), he's a little immature which matches with my maturity. btw....he's beautiful
2006-08-01 13:22:07 · update #1
age doesn't matter my boyfriend and i are trying for a family and he is almost 8 years my senior, if you feel like there might be something there go for it woman whats the hold up, really get off the key board and get things going
2006-08-01 13:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. My best friend dated a 32 year old when she was 18, it made sense for these two people. Their maturity levels were similar and they had known each other in a professional environment for a few years. I know of many other situations like this. I think if it feels right and not weird, like you two are on the same sort of plane, then go for it and don't worry about the number.
2006-08-01 13:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Can Love Any1 U Choose 2 Love 2
2006-08-01 13:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by nicnoo23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though it's ten years, i approve.
you're obviously mature and know what you're doing, and this guy sounds like a good guy.
and i'm so glad that this twenty-eight year old is not married or has kids! good for you, you realize that is inappropriate unlike so many other women.
i think in your situation, age ain't nuthing but a number.
2006-08-01 13:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not wrong at all. infact my step mother is 10 years younger than my dad, which makes her 10 years older than me, and they are so happy and inlove it's a beautiful thing to see.
just don't let this guy lead u on or hurt you,
i think there is nothing wrong with a ten year age gap as long as you are both adults which you are, so go for it..
2006-08-01 13:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is he towards you're plans about the future. is he like you're dad or like the cute older actor from tv you always fantasied about. does he know? he's not married or a father to a girl you're same age cause either can be problematic to a relationship of this type.
2006-08-01 13:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by la calenita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love maybe unpredictable but there are things about love you definitely learn with experience.
Just don't be surprised should the differences age and experience become a facot in you relationship.
2006-08-01 13:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by r3djudge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a guy that's 3 years and 3 months older than me, so what, but I am real tall, so I look like his age, well so what? It doesn't really matter the age, as long as you love him.
2006-08-01 13:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 yrs isnt bad my step dad is 12 yrs older then my mom
2006-08-01 14:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by larissacory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once it comes to love, there is no such thing called "right" or "wrong." BTW, love is unpredictable
2006-08-01 13:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by nal_io 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋