I've been going out with this girl for over a month, but we have been talking for almost 4. Me and her are like best friends, and there is almost no secrets between us. I know I feel something really deep for her but I do not know how to explain it. I believe it is true love, my heart tells me it is, but I still have doubts. I am so afraid that it is just infatuation and hormones. Every time I think of her I get a warm, content feeling all over. I feel like I'm on top of the world, and when I am around her I feel complete and whole. This girl is my life. I would do anything and everything for her. But is this love? Does this mean she is the one for me?? My heart tells me yes, but my head tells me I am over-reacting, and I need to rationalize what I'm feeling. What do ya'll think?
2006-08-01 12:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by Crash37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way I am 19 and this is the first girl I have ever felt this strongly about, but I'm not the typical 19 yr old guy. I know that when it comes to relationships, I think like a 30 yr old hehe, at least thats what my friends say.
2006-08-01 13:05:28 · update #1
I think that is really sweet and you should enjoy it for what it is and not worry about what it is or isn't. ♥
2006-08-01 12:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you would of said how old you are. anyhow...no matter what age we all question what love is. And we can feel something so powerful that it takes all of our energy.
I think for you it can be the start of love.
I believe what makes love is when two people feel this way and the feelings stay through thick and thin. If the first trauma sends the two of you away from each other, you are probably infatuated with eath other. Even love has it's limits.
I think every human who has ever lived and loved has questions about love.\
2006-08-01 20:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, never get to a point where you are willing to sacrifice your whole life for someone! She should not be "your life". Yes, you need to calm down, enjoy your time with her, don't blow it, don't screw it up.......be respectful, have personal boundaries, make sure you are both able to have your space to be able to do your own thing and not be joined at the hip. Don't invade her privacy and think that you know have to know everything about every move she makes. Don't play games. Communicate openly without accusing and pointing the finger at her when things don't go as you would like. Keep an open mind. Listen.....and just have fun! You will know......you will be sure.....when the time is right.
2006-08-01 20:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just enjoy the feeling and the relationship. Don't try to analyze things so much. Just enjoy what you have with her. Relax everything will be fine!
2006-08-01 20:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could b a little of both but for now just go with it and enjoy ur time with her its really sweet how u feel and u should just go with it i kno not very explanatory but its the best way i can explain
2006-08-01 19:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me from what you said it sounds like you love her, but it also sounds that you may have an underlying fear of rejection.Confront your fear and the answers shall come.Then you will know what to do.
2006-08-01 19:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't waste your time and energy on labelling it. You feel good....so enjoy it. If it IS love, in time you won't have to ask. You'll just know. In the meantime, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
2006-08-01 20:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by tammyb752001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you 14?
It's puppy love dude
You'll grow out of it little guy
2006-08-01 19:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe.
2006-08-01 19:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋