yeah ok so a lot of my friends got high and had sex yeah we are in 7th grade!! my friends arent pressuring me to get high well they are but they are also pressuring me into having sex so when i hang out with them i get butterflies in my stomach sooo ..... yeah what should i do about the sex pressure?
2006-08-01 12:44:07 · 28 answers · asked by Go WiLdd iTsz PaRtii TiMe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you can say....I don't want to get high so I can appreciate what I am doing when I have sex.....and you always can say I am on my period and its very uncomfortable and nasty so maybe another time.....they wont pressure anymore....
2006-08-01 12:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by JTB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems to me like you are hanging out with the wrong crowd. i'm not your mom so im not even going to start with all the the dangers of drugs and sex. But what i will tell you is this. No one can pressure you into doing something YOU DONT WANT TO DO. I know they're you're friends, but if they can't respect your wishes, than what makes them friends in the first place? Follow your heart, if you're feeling pressured just say no. Wait til the time is right so you won't regret it.
PS GET NEW FRIENDS. sorry if its harsh..
2006-08-01 12:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends, if u r uncomfortable with their acctivities do not be arround them, just explain to them that what they r doing is not what you find to be fun, try to find a group of friends that are active, who play sports or do something fun, b/c they will be less likely to do drugs and will not be having as much sex any way, Good Luck! Stand up for yourself, it is the first step towards growing up, there will always be pressures of some sort from people in your life, so start learning how to handle it well by not letting them tell u what to do. If it gets really bad get help from parents or teachers.
2006-08-01 12:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing....Im 19, going into my third year in college and just lost my virginity last year. No one pressured me into doing anything. It was my choice. I had plenty of opportunities where I could have gave it up when I was in middle and high school. But I didnt. For one, I wanted to wait. And two, I didnt want to deal with any responsiblities that may come along(example getting pregnant.) I chose to have sex for the first time my sohpmore yr. @ college because I felt I had grown alot ( not only physically, but emotionally too.) And I felt I could handle things if anything was to happen. Luckily I did not get pregnant but Im just saying this to say dont do anything until you think every thing through. Think about any consequences that may happen. Are you ready for that. If not, then wait.
2006-08-01 12:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by snugglesbunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new group of friends, preferably one that does not do drugs or pressure into doing other things that you are not comfortable with. Do not be afraid, in a year or so when your "friends" start coming up pregnant and have STD's, they won't be so cool then. Respect yourself, that is the only way other people will.
2006-08-01 12:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke 32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only in 7th grade so your what around 13 or 14. i think you should find different friends that dont pressure you into things. its your body so its your choice but think will those friends be there if you get preg or get someone preg or if you over dose or even if you get caught geting high or have something on you will they help you. probably not cuz most 7th graders think about whats going to happen to them
2006-08-01 12:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by marynew8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. . don't listen to Experienced. He is a pedophile jerk off! DO NOT get high and have sex. . .you are too young! Find different friends. . . end of story. If they were real friends they would respect your morals and character and would not pressure you. You are better than them. . . stay that way.
2006-08-01 12:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't feel the need to have sex at such a young age. (If you have sex now, I am 99.9% sure that you will REGRET it.) Wait for the right person. And, if the pressure continues, they are not your TRUE friends.
Stay Strong
2006-08-01 12:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by B. Q. Z. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it. It's really not that difficult. Keep your clothes on and legs together, and voila- you're not having sex. You don't have to have sex to be worth something, or to get your friends to like you. If they choose to not associate with you because you won't sleep with someone yet, you're better off. You have so much more to offer than what's under your clothes.
2006-08-01 12:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should just not hang out with em anymore and just forget about em. You should not be having sex when you are only in 7th Grade!
2006-08-01 12:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex just because your friends are doing it. Wait to have sex until you are ready. I am not saying until you get marriedk, but until you are older and have strong feelings for someone. Otherwise you will view sex as just sex and you will think that for the rest of your life. Sex isn't suppose to be just for fun. It is for someone who you have strong feelings for.
2006-08-01 12:49:37 · answer #11 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋