ok , there is this guy ... he lives 2 hours away from me and he is 2 years older than me ... but hes exactly what i want ... and there is this other guy ... he lives in the same town as me ... but is shorter than me ... but he is SO NICE ! PLEASE HELP ME !!! i dont know what to do !!!
2006-08-01 12:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound young. Maintaining a good long distance relationship is tough for anyone, but almost impossible for young people who cannot easily arrange to see each other often. So...I would keep the long distance dude as a friend for now.
There is no such thing as only one "perfect" guy or "soulmate."
As to the local guy...geez..there are millions of great fish in the sea! There is absolutely NO reason to date someone who isn't what you want. Period.
Wait it out. Honestly, no boyfriend is much better than the wrong one (and you will be lonely and miserable if you are hooked up with someone you hardly ever get to see). Get out with your gal friends and have fun. You will find someone who is suited to you in no time.
2006-08-01 12:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two hours away, doesn't seem far, at first, but when you have to go there and come back, it's four hours. A big part of the day, just getting there and back.
It soon gets very tiring, and cuts down on the time you have to spend with that boy.
So the other nice guy, is a bit shorter than you, just wear your flats, you can get to know him, and have fun at the same time.
You can try going out with both of them, but I'd suggest you don't, it gets very messy, very quickly.
2006-08-01 12:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sam. . .first of all. . . if you base who you date on height and distance. . . well. . . don't shoot the messenger. . . but you are a SHALLOW SKORE! If both these guys are really nice. . .then do them a favor and stay away from both of them. Instead go out and find some guy that is equally as shallow as you.
2006-08-01 12:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try them both out...Date one and then say that you should take a break and then date the other guy for the same amount of time then make up your mind!! BUT DO NOT CHEAT!!!!!!!! Then you will have neither of them :'(
2006-08-01 12:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the short guy
2006-08-01 12:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one do you like more? are you and the older guy really compatible? (i mean are you in h.s. and he's in college - that might be a problem.) can you see yourself in a semi-long distance relationship?
2006-08-01 12:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical appeareance is temporal. it would change thru the years or an accident. you should focus on the inside and how do you connect with them and feel around them.
2006-08-01 12:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 hours away isn't far. go with your heart... if its meant to work out it will.. have faith... and good luck
2006-08-01 12:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date both...and don't be secretive about it either.
2006-08-01 12:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Islandkiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋