How do i tell a guy i love him?

Question

idk if i should..he likes me but idk

i know how to say i love you but idk if i should hes my bros bff would that make probs? bcuz what if we break up he'll b at the house ALOT!

no im not sleeping with him GOD!

Answer 1

You can practice this way and that way and any way, but it never comes out that way - so just say it - I love you! Man that will feel good! Good Luck!

Answer 2

Well, think about it. Is this really the kind of guy you want to be with? If he is, tell him. You said he likes you. Since he's your brother's bff, try to make sure that you never break up in a way that wouldn't cause tension. Wow, that really sounded weird, break-ups always cause tension. Well, try to stay friends no matter what. That's what I made my bf promise when we started going out.

Answer 3

Telling him and showing is something you have be mature enough that those feelings can be recipercated. You must not lean on an action to cause an imediate reaction. Let me explain. I had a girl say to me, that she loved me. I had only met her one time. Sure we chatted on the phone a few times but the first time we actually went out it turn out to be more like a disaster. I had agreed to pick her up at a relatives house(like a neutral location for both of us to meet). After we drove for a couple hours chit-chatting about our likes and dislikes I had to add gas to the car. I didn't realize we had driven around getting to know each other we had wasted almost a full tank of gas. When I get back inside my car, I had looked for her. She was in the backseat, practically naked, from the belly button down. She told me that she loved me and wanted me to have sex with her in a few moments or else she would make a scene. I drove to what I thought was a secluded spot. And put the car in park, Took out the keys and got of the car. She put her hands on my back trying to coax me back inside. I said I won't til she got dressed. She said, "Why? Don't you want to f--k me"? I said, "Look, one we this is our first date. Two, why do I want to put you at risk for a possible getting pregant? Three, do you really think we could survive since we don't really know each other that well? Four, I don't want to explain to your family or to mine how it happened when all we did was on a first date. Five do you really think, I want to have sex with you on a first date? I rather wait till we get more into knowing each other more before we decide intimacy is our main goal and lead to possibly marriage. Now get dressed I am taking you home!" I did take her home, and she cried repeatedly on my answering machine, saying that I found her to be undesirable and I think of her as everybody else thinks of her as a slut. I did have one last face to face chat with her. I told her she is an attractive young lady and I just don't want to ruin somethng that we share for the wrong reasons. That was a few years ago. I had been updated on her from her family and that she is now married and has a few kids of her own. And unfortunatly is filing for divorce,for the third time. Seems that she keeps getting mixed up with fellows that want to take advantage of her, and yet, when they ask her about what happened to me and her, she just says nothing.

Answer 4

ok heres how you tell him, if your under 15 you hit him, lol if your under 18 you say it and run before he can react because then you don't have to wait for his response ... if your me you try not to say it untill you know for sure that it's real and not just infatuation, then you dtop them and just say it when they are in the middle of telling you something really important to them, but it really dosen't faze you at all lol then they stop half way through and react in the funniest ways possible it is the greatest when they freeze up completely and don't know how to respond lol it is something good to look back on if things work out for at least a little while....

Answer 5

Just checked out some of your other questions... Let's stick with "like" for now and feel him out... He may only want you as a friend and I'd hate to see you heartbroken before the relationship had a chance to blossom... SLOW DOWN...! (and breathe...)

Answer 6

i would personalty wait for the right moment when u feel like itz gonna burst out but u should wait until u feel he loves u 2 or u'll just be makin a complete *** out of ur self
hope the advice helps u !!

Answer 7

hey get ur guts 2gether. i had 2 do it. and i gotta tell u once u get it out it feels so great. and dont b scared if he doesnt say it back, but if he doesnt say it back ask y and if its a stupid reason dump him.if anyone needs advice email me at [e-mail] ya

Answer 8

say "u might not feel the same way but". he will know what ur talking about right then. if he doesnt love you. time to get up and leave. if he does good luck to you both.

Answer 9

only tell him you love him if you do love him. If you've been with him for a while then give him a sweet kiss and say "I love you"- that's the way to a heart.

Answer 10

If he likes you then just be like hey wuts up and after dinner sit under the stars and just say it : )