Ok I live in Iowa and Im moving 2 texas August 29th for the Air Force, and in 2 days August 3rd Im goin on vacation to nebraska to visit family and from there a flight leaves for california on the 8th. Then I come back to Iowa for like a week and then Im gone in the Air force, and so that means I have like 2 days to spend time with friends and I feel like I don't wanna talk to ne of them, is this normal? Should I just go and hangout with them? Will it make me feel better, but also most of my friends drink and do drugs,and I just like Im already gone when Im still here, and I can't be around that stuff!!
2006-08-01 12:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by bettyboop344 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ohhh goodness you are in a sticky spot. Well They are your friends and even though you cant be around any of the things that they are doing( which is a great decision) They are still your friends. I think if I left and hadn't said a word to them I would feel really bad. My advice is to Just give them a call and tell them that since you only have 2 days that you are still in the process of getting things done around the house and you are really to busy with that to hang out but you didn't want to leave without giving them a call and saying bye. I am sure this will make you feel better and your friends wont feel like you just blew them off. I think that is is normal to not feel like hanging out with friends that do those type of things when you don't do them, Don't feel bad about not wanting to hang out. Alot of ppl make the mistake of putting themselves in a situation were there might be drugs and things around and sometimes you might get pressured into doing something and that could ruin your plans for the air force. Good Luck with everything
2006-08-01 12:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Awomantolove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is most productive and worthy of your time. You're living your life for you, not for your friends. yup yup.
You only live once (at least that you can remember), and sometimes that once can be pretty short.
I myself? My favorite thing to do is horseback riding, and going to the gym to play sports with my gym buddies. So I'd go spend a day vacationing... horseback riding all by myself or maybe some friend of mine that likes horses also. Then I'd veg in front of a t.v. and watch a movie., then i'd go to the gym and work my lil' heart out :)
I have some friends that I love but also that annoy me. I'd just send them an email saying hey.. hope you have a good time while I'm gone in the Air Force - blah blah blah.
2006-08-01 12:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joining the Air Force (or any Military Branch) is a huge commitment. You are less than 30 days from what may be the most exciting time of your life. Don't mess it up soldier. Hanging out with your party buds (and not partying with them) will be your fist test as a stronger person.
2006-08-01 12:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by John V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because people drink and do drugs dont mean they are really bad people. thats stereotype. i have friends that do that, but they are still good people. try hanging out with them, u might regret it if u dont. u could have a really fun time with them before u leave. or tell them u dont want them to do that stuff when ur around or something.
2006-08-01 13:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prepare for your long trip ahead and since most of your friends do drugs and drink there's no reason to try to hang out with them.
2006-08-01 12:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Erin E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ur best friend a good bye and if u dont want to or dont feel like it forget the rest of them and prepare ur-self for the long tip ahead
2006-08-01 12:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never associate with people who do drugs. So I say the less you associate with these people the better!
2006-08-01 12:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO have good bye love with the one you want and forget the rest.
2006-08-01 12:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by cdslsmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont!!
2006-08-01 12:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋