well im 19 years old ...im married ....my hubby is 20 and we wanted to bring a girl over to live with us...meaning she would be our partner...my problem is that i have never been with a girl ....i have only kissed a girl ...but never slept with one....and we havent found the right girl .....cuz either shes bi but has a man...or shes lesbian..meaning she doesnt like guys....should i give it a try ????
2006-08-01 12:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-01 12:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a glorified way for your husband to cheat on you without the guilt trip as long as you are there. Basically, hes get his cake and eating it too. You are asking therefore youre not sure what to do. Id say forget it as youre only going to regret it afterwards, and it will cause problems in your marriage. Why does he want another girl anyhow? Tell him;its not having what you want, but wanting what you got. I suppose hes going to give you a hard time when you turn him down if you do, and probably will most likely cheat on you at some point, so please be prepared for anything and dont let him force you into anything you dont want to. Your self esteem or self confidence will be ruined if you give into your sex crazed husband and you dont have to take this. Good luck
2006-08-01 19:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep this to yourself, because it's enough STD's going around behind things of this nature happening. People sleeping around without the thought of what it may bring in the long run. Enjoy each other, isn't this why you two got married?
2006-08-01 19:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't try this. It might mean the end of your marriage. Bringing another person into your relationship is like putting a wedge in between you and your husband.
2006-08-01 19:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your marriage and it's your body. If you want this, then you need to find a woman/girl that you are interested in.
I think you have some reservations, and as such, should not give in on this demand. Don't do what you don't want to do.
Good luck!
2006-08-01 19:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of marriage is this??? Well, I should say.. I am old fashioned and lol old too.. so.. no.. if it were me.. I would say no way. If she is in .. then I am out. I dont want to share my man with nobody. Good luck.
2006-08-01 19:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, go for it... How 'bout 2 girls? Then you can watch them do each other.
2006-08-01 19:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart say?
2006-08-01 19:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,No,No
2006-08-01 19:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by cuttur2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋