should i run away cuz my mom and my aunt are bugging me and wont stop yelling at me and i have been going through alot this year and idn what to do some one help me!?
2006-08-01 12:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Other - United States
You absolutely should not run away. That won't solve anything. You need to stay in school and get yourself set for when you turn 18 and can leave if you wish. Running away will not do anything except put you in some really scary situations, and it'll also hurt your mom and your aunt. Believe me, EVERYONE goes through things and it will pass. Try to sit down and talk to your mom. You can work things out if you want to.
2006-08-01 12:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a trouble teen, I ran away and it is not the same, as it is today. It was scarey then....I hitch hiked to WY from WI and got picked up by Hell's Angel's and it was so scarey to be out numbered and no one to save you from what was about to happen.I was at their mercy til that bored them. It is even SCARIER now. So many kids disappear and are NEVER heard from again. There are support groups to help you thru this trying time of your life. If I could turn back the clock and HUG my MOM one more time instead of hurting or scaring her, life would be full and I would smile knowing that she knew I really LOVED her and I am SORRY. My mom is gone and all the horrible things I put her thru, I regret now, especially because I am a mother and would NEVER want to go thru the hell I put her thru. Seek help thru the church, which will hold all said in confidence, or a friend you can trust. The school will, if it's warranted, turn the information to social services...it's up to you honey, but running away is not the answer! Be more mature than the people around you and seek professioal help. Take care :^>
2006-08-01 12:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by All 4 JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and like you could use a friend, there are places and people out there who are willing to help. A local church, a teacher, someone you can confide in. Perhaps your mother is just afraid that you are making some kind of mistake and just wants to protect you. We as adults sometimes forget what it was like when we were younger. Peer pressure being what it is scares the hell out of most parents. Perhaps you should try and sit down with your Mother and see if you can strengthen things out by talking to her. Bring the subject up calmly and ask if there is some way to get around the yelling that it hurts and you dont want to feel like you need to leave?
When you ask to talk perhaps it would help to have a third party present who is unbiased and would only be there to keep things in perspective. Don't let the bad times of the present foil the good memories of youth, your mother loves you and in sounds like you love her you just need to open the communication flow. The Lutheran Service society can provide counseling if needed they are one of the many places that can lend a helping hand.
2006-08-01 12:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont run away, not until youve spoken to your mum porperly, at least. She may talk to your aunt which is why theyre both getting on your case. Your mum may be unhappy about something and rather than talking about it with you shes going to your aunt. you need to confront her, it may be something simple like she feels your not helping with the housework enough, it maybe something to do with the "Lot youve been going through" If when youve had a good talk and you cant resolve things then i wouldnt run away. Have you not a dad or a grandparent or a teacher you can go to. If you run away the police will get involved and only bring you back!
2006-08-01 12:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't run away - talk to your school counselor or a teacher you are close too if you need to take it out of the family - running away will put you in danger - look at it like you are just there until you can take care of yourself and then you can drag - try staying over at friends as much as you can - and if they are yelling at you alot, perhaps you can reflect on your behavior and see if there is any merit to what they are saying - if not just try to do your best to pacify them - abuse is never ok and you shouldn't take it - but seeking help is the more mature choice - running away will never bring sucess - hang in there sweetie and remember no one is perfect and we all could use to change or correct things about ourselves...
2006-08-01 12:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bon Jovi - Runaway BA: Yeah, it kind of feels they could regularly give up at my apartment on their manner and I could speak them out of it. Maybe that is why they stopped by means of. I ran away while I used to be in prime tuition. I bumped into my fine (woman) buddy at the same time I used to be simply escaping the clutch of the vice primary. I want I hadn't, for the reason that she concerned such a lot approximately me. BA2: I haven't any suggestion. Some of them publish it on thier profile
2016-08-28 14:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you have other problems, like have to file charges or something? let this go. do what you need to do, do what is important and stop letting the small things get to you. your not even being specific on "bugging me". keep this type of thing up, you can get a reputation as a drama queen.
2006-08-01 13:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them the reason. there should be one and try to work out on you too. You cant just run away
2006-08-01 12:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by ny k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not ! Stay home its still safer there than anywhere else you would run to. Sit down and tell tyhem about how you are feeling.
2006-08-01 12:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you jus have to deal with the bull **** till you 18 or you jus till start working,
2006-08-01 12:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by bubaloiie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋