2006-08-01 11:48:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
revenge is a waste of time and energy. Single eh? Whatever.
So-forget the revenge and get the justice-file for child support NOW!
2006-08-02 00:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Wow that would be a stellar waste of time. You can't hurt someone that doesn't care and his being gone is a huge clue that he doesn't. The one and only thing you will accomplish is letting him know that you still aren't over it, that you spend your time and energy thinking about him and he's going to get nothing out of it but a laugh, then he'll play it for his friends and they'll have a nice laugh at you together. If that is not what you hope to accomplish just skip it.
Not to mention he didn't get you pregnant on his own, you were equally responsible for the screw up and should have used better judgement and thats on you. You are about to become a mother you better grow up and start realizing what that means, you don't have time to worry about what some loser guy (that you chose to have sex with) is about, you are going to be responsible for raising a future member of this society and if you don't want him or her to grow up to be a loser too you better get on the ball and start focusing your energy on what is really important here. Do you have any clue what you are in for? Do you realize that in the first year alone having a baby costs between 10 and 22 thousand dollars? Do you have it? You better get it. Kids need to eat EVERYDAY, the need clothes, they need dr's and shots and love and time and they will for the next 18 years? How are you going to get them for him or her? Do you have any kind of plan for the future or are you just going to keep getting knocked up by losers and then crying about it? Do you have a safe place in which to raise your child? Is it in a good school district? What kind of future can you provide for this human being you are now responsible for? Are you up for it?
2006-08-01 18:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's Just my Baby's daddy
Push It
Gold digger
Bettin on a Loser
2006-08-01 18:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by austinguurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the daddy songs, get all the information on this guy that you can. start with his sin number, where he works, and see a lawyer about getting a blood sample to do a DNA test from him, and from the two of you. You don't want to raise this baby on your own, without support (money) from him. It won't be easy, but stick to your guns.
2006-08-01 18:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if your "baby daddy" didn't stick around to support you, what makes you think that he will listen to a homemade Babby Daddy Basher CD. Move on!
2006-08-01 18:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know I'd waste my time sending it - but might make you feel better... his loss, big time.
Harry Chapin.... The Cat's In The Cradle
My child arrived just the other day
He came to the world in the usual way
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
He learned to walk while I was away
And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it, and as he grew
He'd say "I'm gonna be like you dad
You know I'm gonna be like you"
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man on the moon
When you comin' home dad?
I don't know when, but we'll get together then son
You know we'll have a good time then
My son turned ten just the other day
He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, come on let's play
Can you teach me to throw", I said "Not today
I got a lot to do", he said, "That's ok"
And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
And said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah
You know I'm gonna be like him"
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man on the moon
When you comin' home son?
I don't know when, but we'll get together then son
You know we'll have a good time then
Well, he came home from college just the other day
So much like a man I just had to say
"Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while?"
He shook his head and said with a smile
"What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys
See you later, can I have them please?"
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man on the moon
When you comin' home son?
I don't know when, but we'll get together then son
You know we'll have a good time then
I've long since retired, my son's moved away
I called him up just the other day
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"
He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I can find the time
You see my new job's a hassle and kids have the flu
But it's sure nice talking to you, Dad
It's been sure nice talking to you"
And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me
He'd grown up just like me
My boy was just like me
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man on the moon
When you comin' home son?
I don't know when, but we'll get together then son
You know we'll have a good time then
2006-08-01 18:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by mama_bears_den 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the situation, hon...but I think you'd be wasting your time. Do you really think the guy who knocked you up and then took off is going to listen to a CD and think: "Wow...she really got me told?"
And when you get right down to it, who's the bigger "loser"...the guy who pounded the old muffin, or the girl who spread her legs and LET that loser pound it?
2006-08-01 18:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about listen to BabyMama by Fantasia so u can feel good and dont worry about him, because if ur a strong woman u can do it by urself with out his help
2006-08-01 21:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind the songs and let this idiot know that he should get a job because child support will be forthcoming.
2006-08-01 18:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe any one would leave you i feel so sorry for you
i am a single dad know for 4 years you are in for a long road please take care of your self and have a good life.and no i dont know of any baby daddy songs sorry
2006-08-01 18:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong you will be fine. love ur baby(your) he is losing out. he is still a child. you are lucky to have ur family. there is a guy out there that will love u and ur baby. be carefull though,dont rush into a new relationship. dont know any songs i read ur 360.
2006-08-01 19:00:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋