does anybody else hate it when someone says you're too young. or grow up......i mean ok in some situations its true and you should really back down....but other times when you just need an answer and it sounds mean and rude and not to mention hurtful,it just well hurts..i don't like and i wouldn't do it to someone.
2006-08-01 11:43:09 · 21 answers · asked by Rosy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks to some people here.now i understand.
2006-08-01 11:52:07 · update #1
all i'm saying is that icame here to find answers to my problemsif i have the problems i'm honestly not to young to know the answer.the problem is already staring me straight in the eye.
2006-08-01 11:53:42 · update #2
I agree. You're never too young or too old I say...
2006-08-01 11:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people take the truth the wrong way! maybe the person who is saying those things aren't trying to mean, but you take it in that matter. I think we feel so hurt that when people are trying to be compassionate or tell you in the " not intentionally hurting your feelings way" that its seem harsh beyond reason. Now I'm not going to lie to you some people are actually rude and obnoxious in telling you things, but you just have to work through it and not worry about that person.
But when you want answers...that's a different story and a different ball game!! Sometimes people don't give closure to anything because they don't want to hurt your feelings or the just don't care. If you continue to nag and nag this person with why this and why that then they are going to get irritated and it will come out as rude!! But if they don't give you answers the first time that you ask then just move on....it might hurt a lot that there is no closure but life goes on!
2006-08-01 11:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the truth hurts, no kid wants to hear that they are too young but its very often very true. If you are truly asking a question in the interest of getting peoples (adults) opinions about it then you shouldn't be bothered by it, if you are simply putting things out there to try to get people to agree with you then you shouldn't waste anyones time by posting a question anyway and should just talk to your friends who all think they are grown up enough to know whats what too. We say it because we've been there, we've seen what can happen if you get involved in things you are simply too young to deal with. We are only trying to save you some grief, but if you would prefer learning the hard way go for it.
2006-08-01 11:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people 'you'll always be too young', especially parents, they're simply terrified to let you grow up - indeed it sucks, but think of it this way: One day you can turn and say: Ha, Up Yours!
2006-08-01 11:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of question you ask alot of kids on here ask things that they already should know the answer to if they had any common sence and you should learn to toughen up a bit if the things people on here say seem nasty and hurt your feelings because they are just strangers who you will never meet in person and during the course of your life you will encounter bigger stronger and nastier people who will say much worse things to you
2006-08-01 13:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by RACHEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so natural. When grown people are talking they, always do not want young questions or the contrary. Please, be patient and if you want sincerely answers try a new approach... for example, speaking one to one and not in a group. Here, is another way... we do not know how old you are.
2006-08-01 11:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by vahucel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are afraid to answer question to young people because they don't really know and don't want to sound dumb so they give a dumb answer like that not realizing they do any way
and others think they are protecting you from the truth
2006-08-01 11:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course no one likes it, its demeaning. But I dont think most people mean it that way, they just dont know how to handle it. But what you do is, say "I cant, God has made me this age for a full year and I get to be it and act it." It may not make a whole lot of sense but it usually gets whoever to "SHUT IT", ya know.
2006-08-01 11:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by maisyday07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they said that coz you do immature questions !! some people its so rude here but there is also very nice people that gives nice answers , don't let them to bother you just enjoy . Ignore the rude answers.
2006-08-01 11:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 39 but Im amazed at how much hostility adults spew at kids online. I dont know why they do it. Are they jealous of those with youth? Who knows..
2006-08-01 11:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋