Me and my boyfriend have been talking for 6 months. And we was doing just fine but until 2 weeks ago. I haven't talked 2 him since! He say his cell phone is turned off, but their alot of phones in this world. He say he still love me but I just don't believe it anymore. What is his problem!He think that I am going 2 sit by the phone all my life waiting for him but i'm just not going 2 do that, I have a life 2 live, and i'm still young. What should I do wait a little longer or cut him loose?
2006-08-01 11:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by babycakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You actually gave the answer yourself... you have a life to live, so live it with or without him. If this man is yours to keep, he will meet you wherever you are at. He knows your number, he knows how to reach you but he is not doing it. It's obvious he is using lame excuses not to contact you. Men just don't know how to breakup.. instead, they think that if they hide long enough, we (women) will forget about them... I know it will be difficult for you to let him go and move on but you have to do it. Take good care of this most important person that is.. YOU! He's not worth you sitting by the phone until he decides he needs to talk to you. Get up and get your life back! Good luck!
2006-08-01 11:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older and more mature you will never let a guy treat you this way. The guy is a jerk who comes up with excuses to not call also doesn't have the balls to say it is over.
I am guessing that you are very young and your concept of what a boyfirend is...is just a bit tainted. You are at an age where boyfireds will come and go. He may eventually mature....but I imagine it will take time.He isn't mature enough to be in a relationship. Maybe you aren't either.
A girl would never put up with a guy who goes two weeks without calling. Move on hon...........he isn't worth your time and effort.
2006-08-01 18:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time period rule for relationships once stated. If after 6 months, you're still talking, it may have a chance. After 2 years, it maybe getting a little stronger. After 5 years, you've gotten over the hump and it just might last. But who are we kidding? You certainly don't want to fool yourself into thinking that this guy still cares. He's already thinking of excuses as to why he hasn't called! And if there is any indication as to your ages( you say you are still young), he hasn't matured enough yet to want to settle in. You shouldn't either. Go on with your life.
Who knows, if he sees that you've moved on, it may draw him back, that's if you still want him.
2006-08-01 19:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bewildered 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl cut him lose,Its been two weeks no call,means he is not interested. Youare young and dont need him if hes gonna treat you that way.I have been where you are when I was younger and believe me its not worth all the tears and sorrow. I am sure there are plenty of nice guys out there just waiting for a woman like you.So put your head up smile and move on honey. Your friend in Ohio.
2006-08-02 00:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by wizegirl_70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend...I would cut him loose! If he really loved you he would be standing out in the pouring rain on a pay phone just to hear your voice. He is making up excuses...I would call him on it and find someone new! Good Luck!
2006-08-01 18:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill give them about a week to contact me. And he is not telling me what i want to hear and i know he talking that bullsh*t, then its over. And thats right, dont sit by the phone and wait for him to call you, because its obvious that he is not trying to. So jus got ahead and do what you do.
2006-08-01 21:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him loose just be thankful you only wasted 6 months
2006-08-01 18:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up your not married and like you said your young you can date another person if you like and respects u
2006-08-01 18:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him loose
2006-08-01 18:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!!!..i had a guy do this to me. i hate to break this to you sweetie, but he already dumped you.
2006-08-01 18:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋