My roommate graduated with a BA in Criminal Justice back in December. She worked for a few months afterwards and then decided to quit and take a month off, then find a 'real' job (i.e. a career). She looked a little after that first month and then it kind of burned out. Her parents support her and were supposed to cut her off of fund on her 23rd bday (June 13th) but they have yet to do that.
Every single day all she does is sit around, swim, or hang out with her boyfriend that makes good money to spoil her and encourage her not to work or look into a job
How long until my other roommate and I get involved? We are thinking about email her mom to see what she thinks and to give her the real scoop on what her daughter is doing with her life. Should we do anything? We don't want to confront her and just end up pushing her away and to her boyfriend.
Advice, please!!
2006-08-01 11:16:37 · 3 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is paying her share of the bills then is her buisness how she lives,But if you guys just dont like her anymore tell her to move
2006-08-01 11:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she paying her share of the bills? is she respecting your privacy? if os then I don't see the problem. You never bothered to mention how this is affecting you. If it isnt really then what business do you have to contact her family? I think maybe you're jealous that she gets to say home and get spoiled while your out working your butt off. If thats the case then I think you need to accept that some people get off easier then others and thats just how it is...for now anyways. I'm sure things will turn around on her later on.
2006-08-01 18:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything if I were you. If her mom asks what she is doing, tell her. Wait until her mother asks first. Even if her mom didn't ask her, you and your other roommate could talk to her. Let her know that you guys care about her and ask her what does she want to do with her life. It is up to her to decide. I don't know if her boyfriend has picked up on that yet, but you could also talk to him and see what he has to say. What it all boils down to is that she needs to decide what she wants to do and get up off her butt. If all doesn't go well, it is up to you guys to decide to do whatever is best for yourselves and for her. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-01 18:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋