here's what happened:
--me & her were bridesmaids for a h.s. friend's wedding
--she tried to save $$ by getting dress made behind my back
--when me & the maid of honor decided on a dress, she tried to make me get my dress made too...but turned out she didn't have any say in the fabric or color and didn't even get permission from the bride!
-i tried to get her to explain, but she wouldn't.. and then she mysteriously backed out, giving weak excuses
-i had to do all the dress stuff alone, make arrangements, spend $$$, and fly to the wedding alone across the country
-i was not happy w/ her, but i didn't try to end the friendship. later on, however, she thought that i was purposely leaving her out (well she wasn't exactly my best friend anymore u know?) and wrote me a HATE MAIL.. complete with "I never want to speak to you again"
Question: should i consider forgiving and forgetting and trying to be friends w/ her again, or is it not worth it?
2006-08-01 11:06:23 · 6 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This girl is not your friend! Why would she be mad at you if she left you high and dry? Do what you think is best for you. She did all the damage so she should owe you an apology, not you apologizing to her. If she really cared about you, she would not have done what she did. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-01 11:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its worth it. if she was a true friend she wouldnt have done that in the first place. i had a best friend for 5 years and she ended up stealing money from me. i still talk to her on occasion, but i havent forgiven her. it will never be the same.
2006-08-01 18:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is her problem? She's the one that left you high and dry- and now she's mad at you. If you truely value your friendship, you should give it a try, but if not- I would just leave it alone.
2006-08-01 18:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She owes you an apology..... Until that day happens when you get one, I wouldnt go out of my way to make her feel like you need her friendship!
2006-08-01 18:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends don't come that ofthen not true friend so she not worth it.! let it be,people like her know when they have a good friend she'll be back an still LET IT BE.!
2006-08-01 18:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by nessag4242 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out of ur way and make her beg
2006-08-01 18:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋