We are four young women sharing a house, 3 of us are from basically the same background, and the other one is just one nasty piece of work! She is 21 but acts like a 14yr old, is very confrontational, doesnt listen to reason... or even give you a chance to state your case after she has made her own assumptions about certain situations. no-one speaks to her anymore, as she has managed to alienate herself from the rest of us in order to play the victim in a scenario that she herself created. The 3 of us refuse to entertain or be taken by her very frequent temper-tantrums, and really just laugh at her for being so immature and rediculous. We pay her our share of the sateliteTV every month, and now she has disconnected our satelite out of spite! She also tells twisted tales to our very sweet & kind neighbour who seems to fall for her frequent lies of being victimised by us! she is inconsiderate,rude& hell-ishly bitchy! how do we get our SatTV back!!! Help!!
2006-08-01 11:05:33 · 16 answers · asked by bond007snaki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
fling poop at 'em
2006-08-01 11:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by closemaster_g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You wont get your SatTV back unless you can easily bribe her. But seriously, if this is a case where it's 3 against 1. You three should leave and work together to get a new house or something on your own. Let her struggle by herself to pay the bills. Otherwise dont expect her to change.
2006-08-01 18:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't like herself and she is very insecure. She is still only 21 and that is when you are the most immature.... I would tell her that she is making life difficult living there. Explain truthfully how you feel and give her a chance to explain herself as well. But don't blame. If she is still bitchy, tell her that she needs to leave. There is no reason she should be allowed to stay if she continues her actions.
2006-08-01 18:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her copies of the receipts and tell her she's got one of 2 choices. Either she gets that satelite turned back on that you and the others paid for or else she needs to reemburse you the money and if not, you and the others will see her in court. Either that or kick her *** out and take the loss and consider it worth it to not have to deal with her anymore.
2006-08-01 18:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who owns the house??if her name is on the papers bail out and leave her to find 3 other people to torture. if you are all legally bond to stay there i dont see why you cant connect the TV service again...
i know you say she is immature but what if you all or maybe individually approched her and calmly discussed a plan of action. cant hurt, certianly cant make the situation worse!
this makes me nervous because i'm suuposed to move in with 3 girls i dont know in 2 weeks. i really hope we get along and i hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-01 18:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by lalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you all kick her out give her an eviction notice and be done with her. If she has no contract with a lease agreement you may not even have to wait that long 30 days will be long enough and do not pay for any satTV get your own.
2006-08-01 18:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by unsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the house is hers, the 3 of you need to find someplace new. On the contrary, if the house is in one your names, simply ask her to move out. Simply tell her she is to dramatic for you other 3 to deal with. Let her know she has 1 month to find another place to live. In the meantime, start looking for another roommate.
Good luck and hope it helps!!
2006-08-01 18:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by prettycute4u62040 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that simple you go out and unhook her cable line that runs to the dish and hook you line up you have sat tv and she has none now if you want to get her out and get a new room mate tell her she has to go because you ladies can't deal with her drama or just plant stuff in her room and call the land lord and have him/ she put her out
2006-08-01 18:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by sparks2228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her out - or if it's her house, you should all leave (assuming no written agreement). If you're all staying togehter - get the sat TV in one of your names. She can't cut if off if it's not in her name.
2006-08-01 18:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a house meeting or start to fighting!!
2006-08-01 18:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her out! And find another roommate
2006-08-01 18:09:33 · answer #11 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋