everything seems fine but he doesnt really want to have sex he finds me extremely attractive but we had a recent scare of pregnancy and he hasnt wanted to have sex since also he started hanging out with friends more than me so i just go to bed while hes visiting with friends in the other room when i ask if he likes being around me he says ofcourse but without sex how do i make him want to spend his time with me and want me the way he used too?
2006-08-01 10:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we live together and i have no girlfriends all his friends are my friends were currently waiting until the 6th to know if im pregnant or not so im not on the pill untill then so that helps clarify a little i will hang out with the friends every now and then but when i ask if he can cuddle with me or hang out with me he says he doesnt want to lay in bed and he wants to hang out with his friends by the time he comes to bed im asleep and we both work all day so night is our time but not any more
2006-08-01 11:04:11 · update #1
tell him that can u cuddle with me or have fun and tell him u dont have to have sex o and i can take that scare away from him about the whole sex thing if u want him to be not scared im me at vvseekervv2000 i dont have enough room to tell u wat to do so im please i want to help u
2006-08-01 11:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by SeeKer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doc about some birth control, if he is scard to have kids right now maybe getting on birth control will put his mind at some ease. When he is up with his friends, invite a girlfriend over and have a hang out session. or just hang out with them, some guys don't mind there girl hanging out with the guys.
2006-08-01 18:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by alleeshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a condom and go on the pill. once the fear of pregnancy is gone he will be back to normal
2006-08-01 18:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try councling.. good luck, hope it all works out
2006-08-01 17:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by ilessthanthreeyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the pill, duh.
2006-08-01 18:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋