How come if a woman says NO we have to respect her wishes?

Question

But if a guy says NO, he is being a jerk or selfish or other BS women label us. And they flip out cuz we said no.

wow GET YOUR MINDS OUT OF THE GUTTER. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX.

I AM TALKING ABOUT GENERALLY. wow

well we know what the majority of you think about.

this pertains to life not f**KING. You can smell a girl thats going to say no then

Oh yeah this about OTHER PEOPLES WOMEN.

I dont have this issue I am speaking on a observation I made about others so spare your whack a$$ little girl comments. If you were smart you would know that my woman actually asks ans answers questions on here from her job.

Answer 1

im happy I am answering this late.

yeah everyone was way off...

If you ask a woman "Hey baby, got pick me up some brew from the store"

and she says NO

you cant have a fit about it what so ever.

Now if she asks" Can you go get some milk"

and you say NO

you get..."you dont do nothing for me, or why cant you do it or, or you aint shite, or blah blah blah"

Women have their won double standards obviously.

Like most things people are plain full of shite and selfish , especially if they are from america.


Now there are those rare occassions where you find a woman of substance that will reciprocate what is given without asking


but I have her already, and so do you.


The rest of the world can deal with the

pretty sidity, itty , bitty, titty, stanky, kitty, commitee


Its a sign of the times brohamy

Answer 2

Here's the reason for the seeming inequity:

When a man says "No," (which is rare, as many have pointed out) he really means "No."

But when a woman says "No," she really means "Maybe," or "Maybe later," or "Maybe with someone other than you, or with you if no one else comes along in the next 12 months, but would you mind to wait?" or "NO," or "Yes, but you'll have to work a little harder," or "Dinner at a fancy restaurant might help your case, but that's a gamble you'll just have to take," or "I'll have to think about it," or "Why don't we just sit here and talk a while, then maybe later we'll decide whether or not it's still a valid question," or something else entirely.

So you see, the rule about respecting a woman's wishes when she says "No" is really for your own protection. Since there's really no way for you to know what she really means, it's best to just forget the whole thing--at least for an hour or so.

Answer 3

Its thought that women say no because they're not ready, innocent in a way ( no matter how much it just looked like she was having sex through her clothes). But some of the most forward of women are the most scared when the time comes. And if a woman or a man decides they're scared or unsure of the situation, the other person's morals should kick in and they should back off. But with a world of increasingly low morals, I predict this sad scenerio will not come out well very often!

Answer 4

Well, gee, if a guy says no, people have to respect his wishes insofar as he isn't going to have sex. People may form whatever opinion you'd like about that person, though it is insensitve to call them a jerk. I would say the phrase "respect her wishes" means that you do NOT force her to have sex. A guy can think or say whatever he wishes, but to do so marks him as insensitive. I would say the same thing about a woman who made a comment about a guy who said no.

If you are upset at a woman who gave you are hard time over saying no, ditch her as she is clearly not someone who thinks about others at all. You are better than that for thinking of this.

If it is you complaining about women who say no, please grow up and move on to someone else, rather than complain that you can't get it when you want it. Either that or go rent a movie.

Answer 5

First of all, I don't know any guy that would say no, but in a situation like that, she would get pissed just like any guy would. Then it's the person's job who got rejected to try to convice the other party. If you can't, you are SOL.

I know I've gotten pissed when I was turned down before (when we were both already naked), so I made the girl walk 3 miles back to her house. I thought it was a fair trade off. No play means no ride.

Answer 6

I think yer talkin with the wrong women. I could care less what some random woman thinks, if she flips out on my saying now, I say she wasn't worth it in the first place. Relationships (of ANY kind) are two way streets.

Answer 7

I believe that both sex's have the right to say no so if these women get mad at you for saying no then move on and find one that will take no for an answer if you don't want to do something

Answer 8

Maybe because men are physically stronger and can be intimidating when they don't listen... Or maybe it is ethically wrong to push someone into doing something. I never hear any women complain about a man saying no...never.

Answer 9

Imagine youself in the womans' shoes. You're not as tough as the guy, you're a gentle and very kind person. But at the same time, you're not a THING. Yea, that's it, you guys treat us like we're inanimate, like we're your playthings, or your toys. We aren't. We're people, just like you, only more feminine. God put us on earth to be companions to man, not man's loveslaves.

Answer 10

I guess it's just a common belief that guys have more of a sex drive than women. so if a guy says no, to a woman, it seems really odd. but you're right, it's a double standard and its not fair.