so my GF is pregnant, yet we've never slept together. she says that i must've had a wet dream when we were sleeping together and that sperms can use their little tails like a corkscrew and can dig through boxers, mesh shorts, panties, even jeans.
she also told me that we can't get a paternity test because we're both Catholic which will cause a false negative. I'm kind of suspicious but like, trust is the basis of any good relationship and I really really want to trust her. Becase a month ago when I went to surprise her and found her having sex with my friend she said the only reason she did it was because I didn't trust her enough.
2006-08-01 10:38:05 · 105 answers · asked by trolls aint human 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
There is no way that is your baby if what you say is true. It's your friends baby. You need to leave her. She will always cheat on you.
2006-08-01 10:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your girlfriend is feeding you a line of bull crap and you are taking it. Yes, you can get pregnant without having intercourse, but you would have had to ejaculate on to her naked vaginal area. Sperm cannot dig through boxers or jeans. The sperm would have to come into direct close contact for her to get pregnant without sex. Religion plays NO part in a paternity test. You walked in on her having sex with another man. If she did it once she did it more than once. If she is pregnant it is most likely not your kid and she is suckering you into fatherhood. Having sex with another man because You don't trust HER is the second lamest excuse on this planet. The first being, "You made me do it by not..." Tell your family about the situation, demand a paternity test and never have anything to do with this woman again. (Unless it really is your kid then do right by the child)
2006-08-01 10:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget all that, if she is pregnant and you didn't touch her get a blood test. Being Catholic has nothing to do with this. If she cheated because you didn't trust her enough then wouldn't that be a true basis on which to base you low trust issues. The only thing that will clear up this situation is a BLOOD TEST. If she is against it then she must have something to hide and maybe you should point that out to her.
2006-08-01 10:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are being true and did not sleep with her, then the kid id not yours.
Since she is Catholic, which will not casue a "false negative" on a paterntiy test, tell her that she needs to be strait up with you and tell the truth, because she is sinning by lyeing and she sinned by fornicating and is now a hrlot in the eyes of the lord. If she tells you the truth and confesses her sins, all will be forgiven and if you can forgive her, then you can move on.
Not wanting to be aprick, buit I would also dump her. She is cheating on you man.
If she said that you don't trust her and is why she had sex with her freind, how can you trust her now. Trust is key in a relationship.
2006-08-01 10:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says that being Catholic will cause a false negative?..ummmm.....no. Catholic is not a physical medical condition and there is no such thing as a "False Positive" on a paternity test. They compare your DNA against the baby and either it matches closely or it doesnt. In this case, it won't.
DO NOT sign anything accepting paternity without a test as once you are legally declared the father you are on the hook.
2006-08-01 10:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jim R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy that girl is not pregnant with your child she must be out of her mind to think she can fool you with this one.thats your friend baby you know what you need to do, leave her liying *** you cant get pregnant like that. What H.S did you all go to ? didn't you guys have Health class. This is the most silliest thing I've ever heard. Oh tell her that you really can't trust her dumb *** now.
2006-08-01 10:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by justv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B*llsh*t:
looks like it,
smells like it,
TASTES like it,
sure hope you didn't STEP in it!
Assuming the truth of what you say,
DEMAND genetic testing. This is irrefutable.
Scr*wing your friend because you didn't trust her? More nonsense...just trying to see what she can get away with.
Put your foot down.
(Slept with her w/o making love to her...wearing clothes? Man, you're 'whipped & haven't had any yet.)
Settle this w/ proper testing, & in court if you must, then say goodby & leave her ALONE. Way too many games going on here, dude.
modify) Be certain to get DNA testing; don't settle for a blood test, which can give a false positive. (Dual Catholicism has nothing to do with that.)
If you want to raise kids to whom you have no genetic relationship, ADOPT. But marry some other woman...let some other guy deal with her drama...preferably someone just like her.
You love her? Go right ahead on. Just leave her alone. I still very much love two women from my past, both of whom married guys better able to care for them than I. I regret their decisions, but understand them. Your case is slightly different: she is looking for someone to pay the bills for her to run around as she pleases. She doesn't love you. Love doesn't act like that.
2006-08-01 11:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by comicards 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one talented man! You have a very fertile girlfriend if this happened and you haven't even slept together! If you want lots of children, this is the lady for you! Good luck with proposing!
2006-08-02 12:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how such a cool girl can put up with such a dumb a$$ as you. Of course it's your kid. Quit trying to cop out. Be a man! Accept the responsiblity. Be a good Catholic and believe whatever you're told.
2006-08-01 11:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but if you believe that crap about the sperm then you deserve to be with her. There's only one way to get a girl pregnant and if you didn't sleep with her your obviously not the father. Find your friend chop off his reproductive organ and beat your girlfriend with it.(after she's had the baby.) No matter how much of a biatch she(your girlfriend) is you can't hurt an innocent child.
2006-08-01 10:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by ckmoster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are serious, then you have to know that she is not telling the truth. you should know that just through school sex-ed.
lol she is lying to you, and if you think there might have been a time when you were drunk or something, then get the test. it will not give you a false positive or negative, for that matter, being catholic has nothing to do with that.
break it off with her, either way she is lying.
2006-08-01 10:44:32 · answer #11 · answered by jenzen25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋