Cause in relation to my last question,
we called the doctor.
He said that we just need to try again, but I have to hold it in for about 30 minutes,
we tried,
and she was in complete tears,
she said felt like something was tearing,
the baby head,
is lower where it should be,
but the doctor said it is best
to hold it in until she felt relieved.
well she didn't,
and we have to do it again tonight...
should i listen to the doctor?
is this going to effect my daughter?
2006-08-01 10:18:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am sure that it is, but you should always be careful when having sex with a pregnet women. just be gentle.
2006-08-01 10:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a problem with normal sex even up until the day of birth.
If she having problems with the pregnancy (ie stopping her from early delivery) 6 months is 3 months premature..
Is your wife on bedrest?
Heed what ever your doctor tells you.. If sex is out of the question then think about the child not getting your nut off. You can be creative if she'll do you orally then see if that would work for her. If she orgasms, it may start contractions if she is having problems to begin with.
2006-08-01 10:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it willl not affect the baby if the doctor does not consider her to be at risk. Having said that......
what exactly is painful? the entry? the position, maybe you are crushing her on a particular bone? your body weight?
it is possible she needs some lubrication (if this is the case she needs to drink more water as well)
keep in mind that baby is moving her body parts in different places that make it very uncomfortable. So pressure points are very different with a non-pregnant person.
and another thing, what is with the comment "and we have to do it again tonight " ? YOU HAVE TO?? i hope you aren't pressuring her to have sex just because you want it! because nothing is more of a sex drive kill then the feeling of HAVING to have sex when you aren't in the mood.
2006-08-01 10:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not had a child, but I have looked into this myself.
There is a chance of tearing placenta while having sex that is rough. That is for rough sex only though.
But I found that sex during pregnancy is good because it is supposed to help with circulation or something.
If it is hurting her, don't do it. If you are worried about it. Don't do it.
Just 3 more months. I am sure you can handle it. ;)
And good luck/congratulations on the baby!
2006-08-01 10:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the doctor says its safe, it's fine. If your wife isn't interested, however, don't push the issue. If she is interested in trying, use lots of lubricant (non-spermicidal KY is good, or anything else without spermicide or other chemicals). Pregnant women are sometimes particularly dry due to their hormones, and the friction can be very uncomfortable.
2006-08-01 11:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Cara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completly natural and safe to have intercourse during pregnancy. If pain should occur you really should consult your doctor because something may be wrong, otherwise it shouldn't be painful. Some good positions for pregnant women is for the woman to lay on their side or the classic missionary position(the woman lying on her back).
2006-08-01 10:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor girl alone. If she's in enough pain to the point that she is in "complete tears" then obviously she's not the one wanting sex, and that means that even though you know it hurts her terribly, you still want to relieve yourself. Find another way to pleasure eachother that doesn't put your fiance into tears. My goodness.
2006-08-01 10:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by yello_flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with it.
Actually whenever it is time for her to go into labor, it may actually speed things up a bit.
She has a little bit of time before that though.
I would just keep trying. If it doesn't work out, then hey, it doesn't work out.
But as for medically there is nothing wrong with it. Your penis isn't going to attack the baby.
2006-08-01 10:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue what you are asking? Your doc told you to hold your penis in her vagina for 30 minutes? Is she in pain and you need to relieve her with inserting you penis in her? I don't get it. Not trying to be rude, but you need to re-word this a little so it is more understanding. At least for me. Hope someone can understand this and help you. Good luck!
2006-08-01 10:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is typically safe during all three trimesters. If there is pain involved she needs to go to the Dr. to see what is up. Pain isn't normal.
2006-08-01 10:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by JULIE J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Dr says its fine go ahead...You cannot hurt your child when it is in the womb having sex...Most men think that their penis is long enough for poking the baby in the head...don't flatter yourselves...hang in there..try extra lubrication
2006-08-01 11:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋