im so confused right now, my boy friend gets so upset with me if i can't hang out with him, i need my time alone and he doesn't understand. How can i tell him "nicely" that everyone needs there time alone from everyone and everything just to get back on track with life?
2006-08-01 10:09:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First you have to realize that not everyone needs time alone. There are people that are happiest to spend all their time with the one they love. This doesn't mean your bad or wrong, it just means that for you it is important to have time to your self. Your boyfriend may not be like that. You just need to sit him down and tell him straight forward, this is who you are and what you need and if he can't accept that then there can't be a relationship between you two.
2006-08-01 10:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-01 10:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear retch12,
Can I get you to sit down and get a Bible. Start reading at Psalms 144. Read slowly and pronounce each word. As you read, ask the Lord for help ( He knows already what you are going through but He wants you to understand). Talk to Him as if you are sitting at His feet. I'm sure you have read or heard Psalm 23 before--that is one of my favorites also. I hope this will help you relax and regain your composure.
2006-08-01 12:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by pilgrim_153 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him to get a life, that you need to be alone, that you are not seeing anyone else and that he must trust you. If he cannot do all of those things take a break from him......................
2006-08-01 10:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell him what you have just written. It sounds clear enough for him to understand.
2006-08-01 10:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him, honesty is the best policy.
2006-08-01 10:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i need time alone to fling poop
2006-08-01 10:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by u12fme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u need a break.
2006-08-01 10:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋