i hope this doesn't offend anybody because im serious.
after years of saying no to anal sex, i'm ready to give it a try but im kind of nervous about it. my question to you is; how can i manage to relax when it is first going in and what can ease the whole process? will it become enjoyable the first time or is it an aquired taste?will i have trouble holding it when i need to go #2?
2006-08-01 10:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by jazzmen4u28 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It can be enjoyable...only if you make sure to use lots of lube and go nice and slow...because if you don't use lube and don't go nice and slow it will hurt like hell. The first time, depending on how much he penetrates can feel weird, but after a while it does feel good. After the first time you may have trouble for #2...but that doesn't always apply.
My recommendations on doing this is, make sure you haven't eat much, keep in mind that the space within that region is only 2-3 inches long and so if he goes deeper than that he will be hitting you anal sphincter which can cause loose bowel movements. (Gross I know but its true). Also, use anal lube, its much thicker and makes things flow smoothly... For starters I recommend using the lube while he fingers you gently, and once you enjoy the fingering or feel comfortable with it, ask him to slowly try to penetrate. Note, if you feel any pain stop...because this will only cause more stress and cause your muscles to tighten resulting in bad sexual experiences. Just keep in mind to keep it super lubed, the more it's lubed the more enjoyable it will be, and the less it will hurt. Overtime, if you continue getting fingered there, you will begin to enjoy it and the next thing you know, you will enjoy it a lot...I know I do.
P.S. The hornier you are, the better it feels, so tell him to get you so worked up that you want some sort of penetration
2006-08-01 10:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to fast and clean out ur system,use lots of lubricant and something small to begin with and soft, then try the penis,and it is an acquired taste and yes if u don't use a condom(which u should) the ejaculate will make u have diarrea.
2006-08-01 10:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good lover, you'll love it within minutes, but he needs to make you want it by alot of playing....
2006-08-01 10:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to either hate it or love it. try ky jelly it keeps it lubricated.tell him to lick it and get you really hot and horny. P.S. your man is lucky.P.S. P.S you may have to go after wards
2006-08-01 10:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use lube - plenty of it the first time
2006-08-01 10:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might help you out and might answer your questions...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_Sex
2006-08-01 10:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by a.cuezzi@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋