My ex and i decided to remain friends but everytime we hang out we end up in together....even if we only decide to kiss sometimes. I kind of miss him being my boyfriend but i think i might be a booty call. Last time we hung out i tried just being his friend to see what would happen and he seemed kind of irritated. How do i find out if he really likes me and wants to be my friend or if i'm just there whenever he needs a female? Talking to him is a waste of time because he always gets defensive.
2006-08-01 10:01:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anaree22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im on the same boat as u...key word FRIENDS...whats wrong is u have no respect for yourself..ur better then that and yeah it does sound like a booty call but he might still have those "feelings" for you..u cant be friends with a x until both of u dont look at each other in that way and date other ppl w/o being jealous about it..he cant realize he has feelings for you until your gone..i mean "u never know what u had until its gone"...ignore him for awhile only if u want him back..trust me it does work and if it doesnt MOVE ON hes a jerk anyway girl dont ever be sad over a guy b strong..much love
2006-08-01 10:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he got irritated when you just wanted to hang out and be friends added to the fact that he gets defensive when you want to talk about it is a sure sign that he is just using you and your just a booty call. It is time to end this fake friendship so you can move on and find someone new in your life.
2006-08-01 17:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have all your answers in your own question. The only way to find out if your a booty call is to not have sex with him and see what happens. You already tried that and got your answer.
2006-08-01 17:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with this if it satisfies you. On the other hand, if it walks like a booty call, talks like a booty call and feels like a booty call, you can guess what my answer is. What do you get out of this connection?
2006-08-01 17:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut that stuff completely out for now!Just spend time with him and find out if there is a friendship there first!I think being friends first helps out alot!You just need to spend time together as friends and see O.K.
2006-08-01 17:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by jill f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like a booty call, you probably are.
Stop returning his calls. He'll get the idea that you realize you deserve better than him.
2006-08-01 17:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him as long as you can. I know it will be hard, but then maybe he will realize it or not! You should go out with other friends and see what happens as well. If it was meant to be it will be!
2006-08-01 17:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is really wrong about this is you are ignoring his memo he sent you that you have been demoted to a booty call.
2006-08-01 20:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A brutal honest answer...because you cannot separate lust from love. You need to put them in separate baskets.
2006-08-01 17:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is just using you, you need to move on and just leave him alone.
2006-08-01 17:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋