i need help!!!!!!!! please help me!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok, well, when my one friend and i first started out as friends, we were the best of friends, and then we started getting into fights, and now she is getting mad at me over every stupid little thing. like today we were iming each other, and she wuz telling me about wut wuz happening with her and her crush, and i didn't react the way that she wanted me to react, and now she is mad at me i think, and i just don't want to be friends with her, but i know that if i tell her that i don't want to be friends with her she will make my life even more miserable than it already is, and if i talk to her about how i feel she will get all mad at me for that. and right now my life is just so stressful and i just don't know wut to do, i mean i am like crying about this, so can u please please help me, i will really appreciate it. and i am sorry if u don't like my spelling, i wuz in a hurry

Answer 1

baby girl, your life is too stressful to take any more negative forces right now. don't just tell your friend that you don't want this anymore but ignore some of her messages, don't call her. if she wants to hang out, make up some excuse. i'm sure you can think of some. slowly, but surely , you'll be out from her picture. you guys are still friends but not a close one anymore. so, get centered and think clearly.

Answer 2

I think you should tell her how you feel, no matter how much she's going to get bother by it. You got to let her know that getting mad over foolish thing is not necessary in the friendship. That doesn't grow the bond bettween you two. The only thing you'll learn from it is nothing. It's nonsence. It makes both of you drive mad. Now, arguing over real issues it's okay, once in awhile. It actually makes the friendship stronger. She can't expect you to react the same way. Probably the things she says are repetative, things you heard before. Things that have a clear and repetative solutions. Wh ybring up the same topic? She's making her life miserable. It's like staying in that same situation, and going in circles, with no end. You got to let her know how you feel, girl. If she gets mad, oh well. She likes to be mad, because she likes to be mad. She brings this upon herself. You are there for her, and it seems like she wants alternative answers, when there's usually one. If she tells you bad things, just ignore her. Hey, you were trying to help her out. She was just going in circles. But if you want to save your friendship, talk to har. Tell you how she makes you feel. She has to listen to you. A friendship is made of two or more people, where everyone listens to eachother. One person doesn't make it all up. Now if she wants to get mad about it, ignore her. You can't stress yourself because of her. I wish you my very best, girl. Good Luck!

Answer 3

I think you should drop her as a friend, and if she gets mad and wants to fight, just walk away with out saying anything else, just let GOD fight this battle for you.
Or you can pray about your friendship, and tell GOD all about the problems your having, and most of all pray for your friend and that her atittude will get better, and if it doesn't keep praying and praying, until you hear GOD's soft voice say " I know you problems, and real friend aren't like the way she act, a real friend is like me but in real life you might fight a little, but they will still like no matter what. But if you can tell your friend how you feel, without getting yelled at then those aren't the kind of friends i want you to be around, because i don't want you to get hurt."

Now God probably won't explain like i did, but he'll it an a different way but have the same meaning.
Now you go out there and stand on your two legs that GOD gave you, stand up for giving JUSTICE to yourself.


~~GOD BLESS YA~~

Answer 4

hey friends grow apart sometimes but if you really want to stay he friend tell her how you feel about this and give her some time and space to be mad about it and then start to understand be sure to stand up to her when she's mad explain your points because in the end it can only make the relationship stronger.Or maybe yall just need some space from each other right now.

Answer 5

ok u jus have to seedle down if she doesnt like how u reacted and she gets into fights with u she isnt a good friend jus take it easy with them think about what u are going to talk about and jus take it easy! And if they dont want to talkk to u then jus leave it go find some better friends that will exsepet u as a real friend

Answer 6

Sometimes friends just float apart.

It's not strange, and it's not something to be feared. Sometimes it just happens like that.

I would communicate with her as an adult as to how she makes you feel. Also look at how you've treated her--it may not just be her fault.

It is hard to lose a friend, but that doesn't mean you have to lose her forever. It may not hurt to take some time off and become more independent.

Answer 7

calm down.
If you need to have a good cry. Let it all out.
Then, if you still dont want to be friends with her. Just lay low. Meaning, dont hurry to answer her, then when you do, minimum amount of words possible. Dont contact her. When she does just be simple and short. This will deter her from wanting to contact you.
Lifes too short to be stressed out from something like this!
As the Eagles say..............Take it easy! -- dont let the sound of your own wheels make you crazy!

Answer 8

well hon u can stay frenz with someone who stresses u out alot
[thats suppose to left to your future kids]
u need to have a talk with her and tell her wats go down
if the frenship needs to end then it must
the effects will have to take place but your conscience will be clean.let on her slowly the grief will end one day.the sooner u tell her the better k

Answer 9

this friend of yours is thinking the world revolves around her so she doesnt really care about u ! and belives you will never let her down!!! well u need to let her know the world doesnt revolve around her in a way she will understand !!!! try to talk to her after and if she doesnt dont worry she wasnt a good friend and never will be so find a friend that is nice and actually cares about u !!!!!

Answer 10

I know that she's your friend and all, but you need to be firm with her and tell her how you feel about the way things are going. If she doesn't understand that, then maybe she isn't the true friend that you thought she was.

Good luck to you