Im 14 and really wanna have sex.?

Question

Can someone help me? Give me advice.

Answer 1

get a vibrator and use it at 14 you think you are ready but you are not. trust me i lost it at 17 and was not really ready. and trust me boys will only use you for sex thats all they want. wait until you find that special someone. like your future husband. you'll regret it if you dont wait till your married.

and listen to 317bossyaussie she really knows what shes talking about

Answer 2

It's not about age. It's about being in the right situation with the right person. You don't say who you want to have sex with...

I think it surprises most people how they feel afterwards - it's quite an intense feeling - not physically (unless you're very lucky) I mean mentally and emotionally - that's the reason people feel you're better equipped to deal with it later in life.

It's also not about impressing your friends or keeping up. In my experience the people (mostly girls admittedly) who say they did it early (13-14 etc) seem to regret it and think it might have been a better and more pleasurable (rather than slightly scary) experience had they put it off for a while.

There's no hurry - you're not on the shelf just yet and you'll get lots of offers so don't rush for the wrong reasons.

However, if you're with a boy you trust (and hopefully love) you may be more ready than most.

If you decide to go ahead, be brave and be prepared to take precautions - there's some nasty infections you can catch from the cleanest looking people. If you think buying a condom is embarrasing, imagine telling your Mum you've got and STD!!

Easy does it - follow your head not your heart!

Answer 3

OK, you really want to have sex. Yeah, right.
Let's think about this.
1. You want to give up the ONE thing you and YOU ALONE can give to your future husband, your virginity.
2. You are willing to take the chance that you will get pregnant (and more teenage girls do because of lack of caution and ignorance)
3. If you get pregnant you will raise the baby alone because the boy will be long gone and you chances of child support are little or none.
4. You are willing to take the chance to get an STD that could make you sterile for life or worse kill you.
5. You are willing to give up your reputation, your credibility, and many future boyfriends because they WILL hear of your sexual escapades. The boyfriends you get will try to use you for a sex toy (and they will probably suceed).
6. You are willing to live with guilt.
7. You are willing to lie to your parents (this is not something you are going to ask their permission for, are you?)
8. You are willing to sneak around so that you can find a "safe" place for sex.
9. You are willing to get caught (because you WILL)
10. You are willing to be the butt of some nasty jokes and comments about YOU.
11. You are willing to have everyone at school know whats going on in your life.
12. You are willing to deal with the pain when the boy walks away.
13. You are willing to deal with the criticism when your parents find out (not to mention grandparents and other family members).
14. You are willing to be an "example" for other girls (including your sisters) to follow.

Yeah, having sex at 14 makes sense, doesn't it?

DON'T BE STUPID, DUMB, AND AN A**!

Answer 4

Seriously one word "DONT". You are still a child and just because your old enough to bleed doesnt mean you need to hurry up and breed. At 14 although you think it will be great it wont be facts are simple sit back and look at all the girls in your school that have had sex, arent most considered loose or whores? I bet they are. At 14 you do not know what you want you just assume you want to do this. Its best you wait until you are mature enough to handle the end result of having sex {should you become pregnant} and dont have to go to Yahoo Answers for advice.

Answer 5

Honey u r 14 and ur hormones are haywire. it's not just the fellas who get "weird" sensations around this age. But reality (and it does bite) is that sex becomes emotional without meaning 2 . anyone being honest with themselves would tell u that it will be SOOOO much better 4 u when u r older...when u have had other accomplishments and seen some life happen to you and others. Observe. This is another real reality---It is always tougher for a females' reputation when they get involved sexually and it is worse if she starts early (14 is early). Your reputation is all you have before people get to know you. I suggest you try other means to deal with the woman you are becoming.

Answer 6

First, why do you want to have sex? If it is because of peer pressure throw it out the door, that is not a good enough reason to let some boy in your box. Sex is a big responsibility, it is not just sex, it's std's, babies, self-esteem, rumors (at school if the boy is @ the same school), visits to your ob, birth control. You are only 14 you have the whole world ahead of you and why screw with that? I think you should think of your other options first.

Answer 7

Don't do IT ,I was the same way when I was 14,I'm 16 and am still a virgin,but that's all I thought about 24/7 when I was 14.Just control your hormones,and if you can't, do IT yourself,I think it is better to wait,guys will respect you alot more,so just hold off.I know the urges suck but just wait and you will be happier.

Answer 8

It appears that you are horny. It's normal but you must develop a fighter's spirit.

WHAT?! You dont' know what that is?

Well it's a concept that involves a human being to get a boost of confidence to battle peer pressure and things that may harm you in the future. In your case you must battle your urge for sex.

Stay away from anything that may be sexual for a while. Things like MTV and Spongebob(you'll know what I'm sayin later).

Also if your friends are making you think like this I think it's best you tell them that you dont' want to hear about sex at.

Answer 9

Oh honny you shouldnt be thinking of that right now you are way too young! Get yourself involved in some type of activity maybe drama or volunteer at your local church, ymca, etc...get your mind off of it...its normal to want to have sex and feel loved but dont do it for the wrong reasons....find the right person when your older dont rush things you will regret it later

Answer 10

honestly you should wait, i'm 21 and i lost my virginity when i was 18. I hooked up with a lot of girls and did other stuff but never wanted to have sex with any of them. It is something you should share with someone special. I am no longer with that person but they are someone I will never forget. It's entirely up tp you though. If you are ready then go ahead but if it's from pressure you should wait.