My ex, says he likes another girl, and that he dont love me, and stuff...but why is he still bothering me, and telling me certain stuff is cheating? But then again he says, "im a ****, im butt ugly, a terrible singer, and fat."
and the funny thing is Im a virgin, im definetly not ugly, I sing like an angel, and I go to the gym everyday...so im not fat."
Why is he bothering me still if he has another girl? and do you think he means that stuff, or honestly, is he trying to get me insecure, but he knows im not that stuff?
im a christian, and he says hell get better than me, but i think im a great girl, im pure, i love God, nice, and so on.
what is upm with hi,m?
2006-08-01 09:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
YOU GO GIRL STAND THAT GROUND, tell him to get lost, he probley dont understand you and that intimidates him he can not control you or get what he wants SPOILED BRAT,tell him to grow up, YOU GO GIRL stay pure
2006-08-01 09:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl,
The next time this creep calls or shows up hang up or slam the door in his face. He is doing this because "HE CAN". You are letting him do the things he is. It has nothing to do with you or your shortcomings, it is his way of feeling better about himself because he has no self esteem. He may also be upset because you have not fallen apart since he left and are continuing to stand on you own two feet. Don't continue giving him the power, you control the on off button, "USE IT"
2006-08-01 17:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Connie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that he still has feelings for you but has already made his choice and now is just trying to prove himself that the choise he had made is the right one(the other girl)by humiliating you.You have to stop being "available"to him.If he calls you dont answer ,if he writes you dont respond,just forget him and move on.
2006-08-01 17:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by mira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him he is trying to beat you down.
Here is a couple starter sites. Get involved in your youth group and get away from that garbage. Life is tough enough. :-) and prayers for you.
2006-08-01 16:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave his ignorant hind pots alone and carry on with this thing we call LIFE!
2006-08-01 16:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a dick
When you turn 15 you will understand this.
2006-08-01 16:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by landerscott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your co-dependent
2006-08-01 16:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by stinkycheezface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just can't leave that thing to change ur mind......and win....don't listeb to him......live ur own life.....
2006-08-01 16:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋